{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/61778679d1762d00151db49d?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"10 Surefire Signs of an Emotional Abuser ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1635222081560-8aa28ba6c499ea21be409d99ae7fa978.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Emotional abuse. Don't ignore, tolerate, or deny it. See it clearly for what it is, AND how it is affecting you daily. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>Do you feel putdown, degraded, or are your feelings dismissed and discounted? Is someone trying to control you and/or manipulate you? The whole idea behind emotionally abusing you is to tear you down and wear you down to a state of emotional exhaustion. In that state, the Hijackal thinks you will be too distraught to put up a fight or defense. (Of course, even if you were to put up a fight or defense, an emotional abuser sees that as an opportunity to threaten, or rage....or worse. </p><p><br></p><p>You need to see these red flags clearly, and recognize that what you are being accused of has nothing to do with you. It is the way of the Hijackal</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li>What coercive control is  (<a href=\"https://shows.acast.com/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist/episodes/intimidation-and-coercive-control-intimidation-relationship\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">See more in this episode</a>.)</li><li>The many faces of control</li><li>Why the Hijackal makes isolating you from support sound romantic and attractive</li><li>How many ways are you being surveilled by a Hijackal, a narcissist?</li><li>The sad ways Hijackal legitimatize control and punishment </li></ul><p>Are you aware that you have an emotional abuser in your life? .&nbsp;<a href=\"http://beaclient.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);\">I'm here to help</a>.</p><p>Let's talk soon.</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support</strong>&nbsp;from me? We can talk:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Introductory session for new clients, $97</a></p><p><strong>FOLLOW DR. RHOBERTA SHALER...</strong></p><p><strong>WEBSITE:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p><strong>PODCAST:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"http://www.saveyoursanitypodcast.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com</a></p><p><strong>FACEBOOK:&nbsp;</strong>https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor</p><p><strong>TWITTER:&nbsp;</strong>https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler</p><p><strong>LINKEDIN:&nbsp;</strong>https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler</p><p><strong>INSTAGRAM:&nbsp;</strong>https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler</p><p><strong>PINTEREST:&nbsp;</strong>https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler</p><p><strong>CLUBHOUSE: @</strong>drshaler</p><p><br></p><p><strong>YOUTUBE</strong>:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">https://www.youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp</a></p><p>-------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><strong>I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!</strong></p><p>If you&nbsp;want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,</p><p><strong>join my Community Circle now.</strong></p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + 2 group Ask Me Anything calls each month!</p><p>WOW! Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/circles\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community</a>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>#emotionalabuserecovery #emergingempowered #relationshipincrisis </p><p>#signsofemotionalabuse #amibeingabused #toxicrelationships #narcissist #hijackal #emotionalabuse </p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}