{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/606239bbdb73271e7558bea6?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Future Faking ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1617050031268-b6bc4a839602c681f4ab3e0712d9f4f1.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>All those promises! All those dreams! Was it future faking? That's a very common way that #Hijackals keep you engaged in the relationship. Learn how it works...and, what really doesn't work about it. You need to see this clearly, or you'll be hooked on hope!</p><p><br></p><p>All you ever wanted and more...one day. That's the promise of future faking: when a Hijackal promises or alludes to giving you something you want in the future to get what they want in the present. And, so much more.</p><p><br></p><p>A Hijackal makes big moves early on in the relationship, feigning great interest in knowing you. Sorry. It's not because they're so interested in who you are: it's they're so interested in what they can get from you. Sad. And, this is why they #futurefake! To engage you in the dream!</p><p><br></p><p>Lean in and listen to all the ways narcissists use this ploy to get what they want. You'll want to recognize each one for what it is.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li>How #futurefaking hooks you into staying in an abusive relationship</li><li>Why it can become a pattern that you really don't see</li><li>How F.O.M.O. plays into the #futurefaking dynamics</li><li>Parents and future faking you grew up with</li><li>Red flags of future faking during dating. BIG!</li><li>How narcissists and other Hijackals paint beautiful pictures of the future</li><li>Why you need to believe the patterns and change your direction</li></ul><p><br></p><p>So disappointing! Being with a #Hijackal is a roller coaster that has great, occasional highs but goes mostly downhill. Future faking is a part of this that can keep you staying when you need to be going. Create a better future yourself. .</p><p><br></p><p>I'm always here to help.</p><p><br></p><p>Big hugs!</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support</strong>&nbsp;from me? 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