{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5fcea9f5b5657407b59e332c?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"The SHAME Of It All: Narcissistic, Over-Nurturing Or Needy?","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1607407563753-3eeb6481c06593ca8beae8624673f146.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Shame is a painful emotion caused by recognizing guilt, shortcomings or impropriety, and the basis for narcissistic, over-nurturing, and needy behaviors. SO important to recognize these to understand the dynamics and how you may be caught by the cycle of shame in toxic relationships with partners and parents.&nbsp;</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Things happen when you're little and you don't realize what's becoming part of you. <strong>Being shamed at an early age</strong> by the people who were supposed to protect you makes a huge impact on you!</p><p><br></p><p>#Narcissists take shape then, and so do many people who are attracted to them--or at least, taken in by them.</p><p><br></p><p>This is NEED-TO-KNOW information. It can help you understand decisions you need to make that will change the quality of your life.</p><p><br></p><p>Big hugs!</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>What happens when you were shamed as a child</strong></li><li><strong>Early choices you make in response to being shamed</strong></li><li><strong>How shame affects your attachment style in adult relationships</strong></li><li><strong>Two responses to deep shame...poles apart</strong></li><li><strong>The difference between shame and guilt</strong></li><li><strong>Who will be attracted to #narcissists and other #Hijackals</strong></li><li><strong>Who #narcissists and other #hijackals are attracted to and why</strong></li><li><strong>Projection: how it works in the shame cycle </strong></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler?&nbsp;We can talk:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Introductory session for new clients, $97</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>FOLLOW DR. 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Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/community\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowe</a><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">red Community.</a>&nbsp;</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p>#shame #beingshamed #shamedbyanarcissist #shamedbyaparent #shamedbyapartner #recognizingshame #narcissistsandshame #shamecanmakeyouneedy #toxicshame #coreshame</p><p>#savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #antisocialbehavior #lackingempathy #journorequest #prrequest&nbsp;</p><p><strong></strong></p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}