{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5fa0b42d98ac00437023ac64?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Blame Shifting: Counteracting This Crazy-Making Way Narcissists Try To Win","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1604383914468-da1620bc94a3f0dbd3fd6c2356606801.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Try these strategies and tactics to change the dynamics in your relationship with a #Hijackal when they try to avoid responsibility or accountability, even--and especially--when they feel threatened by a potential flaw of theirs being mentioned. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>You know that everything will be your fault if you're with a narcissist, a Hijackal. The <strong>nasty skill of blame-shifting</strong> is a sneaky specialty. they hone carefully and practice faithfully.</p><p><br></p><p>Infuriating. Frustrating. Unfair. So, how do you respond? It's trickier than you might think, because it is counter-intuitive. You have to engage with the tactics and strategies in this episode for awhile to change your responses to their blame-shifting. You'll <strong>increase your self-confidence when you do. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>Big hugs!</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>What blame-shifting is, how it sounds and feels coming at you</strong></li><li><strong>Why #Hijackals use blame-shifting to hopefully overpower you and gain the \"win\"</strong></li><li><strong>How you can respond so that the #Hijackal does not get the reaction wanted</strong></li><li><strong>Understand how Hijackals want to exploit your fears and probe your weaknesses</strong></li><li><strong>What NOT to do in the face of blame-shifting</strong></li><li><strong>What TO do that will help you stop second-guessing yourself and save your sanity </strong></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler?&nbsp;We can talk:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Introductory session for new clients, $97</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>FOLLOW DR. 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Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/community\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowe</a><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">red Community.</a>&nbsp;</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p>#blameshifting #whyamItoblame #frustratedbyanarcissist #blamesmeforeverything #noreaction #staycalmandobserve</p><p>#savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #antisocialbehavior #lackingempathy #journorequest #prrequest&nbsp;</p><p><strong></strong></p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}