{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5f5ff10e4050e47955bed222?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Never Good Enough? ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1600123134196-532eadd147c39c8bceca0897a7d1a087.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Hijackals®, those relentlessly difficult, toxic people, have both a need and a want to make you always feel not good enough. Understand why and learn to respond in empowering ways, and that's a very good start!&nbsp;</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Nothing you do, say, or are will ever be good enough...unless they want something from you. Then, <strong>they love-bomb you</strong>, and the person you fell in love with returns--for a hot minute! You know I've said many times in these episodes that the person you fell in love with was the Love-bomber. The person you are having problems with is the real person. Sad, but true!</p><p><br></p><p>So, don't be listening another minute to a #Hijackal telling you that you don't measure up. <strong>Don't let a Hijackal put your down, wear you down, or tear you down for another second.</strong> Today, I'm laying out why they behave as they do so that you can clearly recognize it.</p><p><br></p><p>Then, <strong>SEVEN things</strong> you can quietly do to start pulling yourself up, no matter how hard the Hijackal wants to push you down!</p><p><br></p><p>Big hugs!</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Why #Hijackals have unrealistic expectation</strong></li><li><strong>How &amp; Why narcissists and others will never allow you to feel good enough</strong></li><li><strong>The abject entitlement of toxic people with traits like narcissists, sociopaths, and other Hijackals</strong></li><li><strong>Why not and how not to lose yourself in a narcissist's expectations</strong></li><li><strong>The pairs of opposites you'll face when you're with a Hijackal</strong></li><li><strong>SEVEN ways you can pull yourself up again when a toxic person has pushed you down</strong></li><li><strong>How to take back your power </strong></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler?&nbsp;We can talk:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Introductory session for new clients, $97</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>FOLLOW DR. 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Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/community\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowe</a><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">red Community.</a>&nbsp;</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p>#nevergoodenough #putyourselfdown #narcissistputsyoudown #pickyourselfup #healingafteranarcissist #healingafterahijackal #whenpeopleputmedown #whyifeelputdown #whatcanidotopickmyselfup #narcissistputdowns</p><p>#savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #antisocialbehavior #lackingempathy #journorequest #prrequest&nbsp;</p><p><strong></strong></p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}