{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5f160cf6914ad96be2f2f8f0?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"DON'T BELIEVE EMOTIONAL FACTS: Recognize How Narcissists Use Them To Gaslight and Control You","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1595365180162-f4b39dd5a6de345161d2bc0c96d3e710.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Underhanded and manipulative, so-called \"emotional facts\" are used freely by #Hijackals--relentlessly difficult, toxic people like narcissists, borderlines, anti-socials--to frustrate, confuse, and blame. (You'll notice the same in #Hijackal attorneys.) You need to recognize emotional facts. Learn to question and refute them quickly. Tips for empowering responses here, too.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong><em>Hijackals® use emotional facts to suggest possible dire outcomes for something that is unlikely to happen.</em></strong> It's crazy-making! But, so is much of what #Hijackals do each day!</p><p><br></p><p>Emotional facts are also a <strong>tactic for getting others to make hasty decisions based on fea</strong>r. Have you noticed how much they enjoy pushing that agenda.</p><p><br></p><p>I give you six steps to communicating with a person who is in the throes of presenting emotional facts, and they work well. Let me know how they worked for you.</p><p><br></p><p>Big hugs!</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Where the term, \"emotional facts,\" is used</strong></li><li><strong>How emotional facts demonstrate narcissistic projection</strong></li><li><strong>How emotional facts are related to the Impostor Syndrome</strong></li><li><strong>Emotional facts are part of the \"all or nothing\" thinking of #Hijackals</strong></li><li><strong>Bill Eddy's definition of emotional facts</strong></li><li><strong>How mirror neurons fit into the emotional facts discussion</strong></li><li><strong>Six steps to defusing the fog of emotional facts coming in your direction </strong></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler?&nbsp;We can talk:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Introductory session for new clients, $97</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>FOLLOW DR. 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