{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5edd68f9e154e8041e2d666c?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Your Partner Is NOT Your Project! ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1591588088882-6a9da6f11fbcb7655f816a8d803f39fc.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>You'll never have the partnership you want if you continue to see your partner as a project.</strong></p><p><strong>You'll never be loved when your partner wants to fix or change you.</strong></p><p><strong>BIG PROBLEMS! </strong></p><p><br></p><p>The three essential elements in a healthy relationship all need equal consideration for their well-being: 2 Me's and 1 WE! Too often, those elements are not considered equally. Each \"ME\" wants the floor, and the \"WE\" takes a constant back seat. That won't work because it will all be a struggle--a <strong>power struggle</strong>. That creates tension and stress which produce anxiety. No one does well when those things are prevalent!</p><p><br></p><p>Today's topic highlights an<strong> underlying issue in relationships in distress:</strong> one partner sees their partner as a project.</p><p><br></p><p>Remember Episode 115 about the 3 MUST-HAVES For a Healthy Adult Relationship? If not, I invite you listen to that episode. If you did, you'll remember that one MUST-HAVE is equality. That's simply not present when you think you have the right to \"fix\" your partner.</p><p><br></p><p>Your partner cannot be a partner when you are treating them like a project. Take stock now. What's going on in your relationship?</p><p><br></p><p>I'm always here to help.</p><p>Big hugs!</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Why relationships don't work when one partner wants to change the other</strong></li><li><strong>The essential three entities in a relationship</strong></li><li><strong>Why you lose respect for your partner</strong></li><li>3 big problems that trying to fix your partner creates for you</li><li>5 damaging thoughts that destroy relationships</li><li>6 things that need to happen to make a relationship healthy</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler?&nbsp;We can talk:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Introductory session for new clients, $97</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>FOLLOW DR. 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