{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5eb8cdaf919b7542042c793a?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"9 Ways to Tell If Your Relationship Is A Healthy Slow Cooker Or A Hijackal Pressure Cooker","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1589156239210-e94153129cafceac868cc271ac785302.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Who wants to live in a pressure cooker? </strong></p><p><strong>No one goes out and says, \"I want to live with anxiety, hyper-vigilance, stress, and uncertainty. Give me that relationship!\" </strong></p><p><strong>Well, no one who cares about themselves does, right? </strong></p><p><br></p><p>Today, I'm using the contrasts between a slow cooker and a pressure cooker to highlight just what I mean. Most of us have one or the other--maybe, both--in our kitchens. We know what they do.</p><p><br></p><p>Have you ever thought about slow cookers and pressure cookers in terms of how relationships start, grow, cook, or burn? It makes it quite clear!</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Healthy relationships grow</strong>. They're gently creating depth of flavor, slowly.</p><p><strong>#Hijackal relationships degrade</strong> and love to reduce even the strongest fiber to nothing.</p><p><br></p><p>Which relationship sounds better to you? Less heat over more time to savor the flavor? Or, greater heat over less time to break things down?</p><p><br></p><p>Are you <strong>genuinely captivated by your partner,</strong> or f<strong>eeling controlled and a captive</strong>? Big difference!</p><p><br></p><p>Think deeply about these points today, even though you may think they are presented in a more lighthearted way. These are important distinctions that can lead to you being more able to discern whether your relationship has hope for being healthy. You need to know that!</p><p><br></p><p>Big hugs!</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Healthy relationships get better with time</strong></li><li><strong>Hijackal relationships have too much pressure</strong></li><li><strong>How to tell the difference between healthy relationships and unhealthy relationship</strong></li><li><strong>Nine ways to recognize there is too much pressure, too much anxiety</strong></li><li><strong>How Hijackals trick you into thinking all is well and you are loved</strong></li><li>How to tell if you're in a narcissistic relationship, a controlling relationship, a potentially traumatic relationship</li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler?&nbsp;We can talk:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Introductory session for new clients, $97</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH ME: I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>FOLLOW DR. 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Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/community\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowe</a><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">red Community.</a>&nbsp;</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><br></p><p>#relationshippressure #pressurewithanarcissist #narcissistpressure #healthyrelationship #hijackalrelationship #toomuchpressureinrelationship #toomuchanxietyinrelationship #anxietyinrelationship #controlinrelationship</p><p>#savemysanity #saveyoursanity #relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest&nbsp;</p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}