{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5e1a99e20bdb38073b7be74c?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"How to Create Good Relationship Habits Once the Hijackal is Gone","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1578802026634-70aebf5ddf36aa8b5c5fb8d530118a6e.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>You made it! You have ended the relationship with the toxic, difficult person, the #Hijackal! </strong></p><p>Good for you! You know what is best for you, and your family.</p><p><br></p><p>It <strong>takes too long to be truly free from a #Hijackal</strong>. (I know because I help people do that all around the world via video conferencing.) And, you've done it.</p><p><br></p><p>Or, you've at least moved away from the person physically. Your <strong>emotions may take awhile to catch up</strong>. That's normal.</p><p><br></p><p>So, when you find yourself <strong>second-guessing the breakup</strong>--because that happens too frequently--I'm giving you <strong>six habits to focus on to have the happier, healthier life you want</strong>. Pick up your mind when in travels back to #Hijackal Land, and bring it to these six habits. It will help, I promise.</p><p><br></p><p>When you've been<strong> with a toxic person</strong>, toxicity rubs of on you a little. You might be edgy, maybe even a little hyper-vigilant still. <strong>Quick to feel angry,</strong> or <strong>quick to feel defeated</strong>. That's normal. What to do? Focus on these six things. (You're getting it, right? These six things are important! )</p><p><br></p><p><strong>New habits take practice.</strong> You know there is a big difference between talking about something and actually doing it! In that same way, there is a big difference between having information and actually turning it into knowledge. <strong>Knowledge is information that you have taken into your body, mind, heart, and soul and it shows up as changed behavior! </strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Six changes in behavior</strong> for you to focus on <strong>feel more confident, secure, and healthy</strong>. They are simple, AND they work. Enjoy!</p><p><br></p><p>best regards,</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Want to talk with me?</strong><a href=\"http://beaclient.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong> One-hour introductory session is only $97.</strong></a><strong> </strong></p><p><br></p><p>-------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><strong>I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!</strong></p><p>If you&nbsp;want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,</p><p><strong>join my Support Circle now.</strong></p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.</p><p>WOW! Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/community\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowe</a><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">red Community.</a>&nbsp;</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Refocusing yourself after the toxic person is gone</strong></li><li><strong>Knowing the difference between information and knowledge</strong></li><li><strong>Staying conscious of what you're moving towards</strong></li><li><strong>Six steps on the journey to being who you most want to be</strong></li><li><strong>Having the life you want, and the relationships you value </strong></li></ul><p><br></p><p><strong>Want to work with Dr. Shaler?&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Introductory session for new clients, $97</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. 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