{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5d7e7204e093a51b7ed69fb7?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Staying With a Hijackal Out of Guilt and Duty? Unhealthy Reasons! ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1568572093054-40c2d025c0d7a2951a0a9d98605ce366.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p>I know. You don't want to be accused, or accuse yourself, of <strong>abandoning a person.</strong> You especially don't want to be accused of abandoning a person in need.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>#Hijackals are always in need: in need of you to use, misuse, and abuse. </strong>Does that make you want to stay? I hope not.</p><p><br></p><p>Would you tell your best friend to stay in a situation like yours? Hmmmm....pause for thought, right?</p><p><br></p><p>I'm Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, and I work with individuals and couples from many countries through videoconferencing and I say:</p><p><br></p><p><strong>\"You cannot remain in a strained relationship with no conceivable healthy future out of a sense of duty, obligation, shame, or guilt.\" </strong></p><p><br></p><p>Do you understand that?</p><p>Will you allow yourself to believe that?</p><p>Will you, then, entertain the idea that guilt, obligation, and duty are NOT reasons to stay in an unhealthy relationship?</p><p>I hope so.</p><p><br></p><p>Today's episode is a little hard-hitting--maybe--but that may be what you need today. You may be in the excuse-making business, and there is no profit in that.</p><p><br></p><p>Got that? <strong>THERE IS NO PROFIT IN THE EXCUSE-MAKING BUSINESS! </strong></p><p><br></p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li>Why you may be <strong>reluctant to leave a difficult person</strong></li><li>Why you <strong>make excuses for another person's behavior too long</strong></li><li>Steps to take to <strong>making clear decisions about a relationship</strong></li><li>How to <strong>know when it's time to fold</strong></li><li>Why <strong>you're not a bad person when you want to leave a person who treats you badly</strong></li><li>Understanding the<strong> needs of a #narcissist to win </strong></li></ul><p><br></p><p>You'll find that in&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.relationshiphelpnetwork.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">many other episodes of this podcast,</a>&nbsp;and on&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/forrelationshiphelp\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">my YouTube channel,</a>&nbsp;too.</p><p>Enjoy my other podcast, Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show,&nbsp;<a href=\"http://relationshiphelpnetwork.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">here</a>, or wherever you like to find your podcasts.</p><p><br></p><p>Listen to today's episode, and, if by chance, you're still wondering if you have had a #Hijackal in your life,&nbsp;<strong>grab my</strong></p><p><strong>FREE EBOOK, How to Spot a Hijackal®</strong>&nbsp;at&nbsp;<a href=\"http://hijackals.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Hijackals.com</a>&nbsp;. You need to know what's up now, so you don't make mistakes that will hurt you. Grab it!</p><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>#stayingoutofguilt #leavinganarcissist #whyleaveanarcissist #hijackals #changeanarcissist #changeasociopath #saveyoursanity #Hijackals #verbalabuse #passive-aggressive #toxicpeople #emotionalabuse #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #toxicrelationships #manipulativepeople #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #toxicpeople</p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}