{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5cd07a8ffb74e4804337cca6?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"What Do You Mean I'm Not the Center of Your Universe???","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1557166661234-ed7d666f20f6bdc924fcbbedbde38537.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>#Hijackals--those relentlessly difficult, demanding people--NEED to be the center of the attention, the star of the show, the center of your Universe. And, they have to come first. </strong></p><p><strong>You, then, are expected to be their adoring, validating audience, clapping at the least of their ideas. Exhausting, and inappropriate...at the least! </strong></p><p><br></p><p>Whether they take center stage by being charming, or by being nasty, doesn't matter to them, as long as they occupy that space and garner your attention.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>#Hijackals® believe that life should revolve around them</strong>, their needs, wants, thoughts, feelings, and desires. NO! That's not true. But, have you been falling into step with what they want? Time to re-assess!</p><p><br></p><p>Yes, she can be charming, alluring, and magnetic.</p><p>Yes, he can be amusing, engaging, and promising.</p><p>But. it's all about them. That's not a <strong>recipe for a healthy relationship</strong>. It's toxic!</p><p><br></p><p>Is this sounding familiar? If so, it's time for a change. It's time for a clear look at what's really going on, and decide if you're ready to do something that is healthier for you.</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><strong>I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!</strong></p><p>If you&nbsp;want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,</p><p><strong>join my Support Circle now.</strong></p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.</p><p>WOW! Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/community\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowe</a><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">red Community.</a>&nbsp;</p><p>----------------------------------------------------------------------</p><p><br></p><p>You deserve to&nbsp;<strong>create a life that is calm, peaceful, creative, and productive</strong>. A #Hijackal wants to be sure that you do not.</p><p><br></p><p>You will find yourself<strong>&nbsp;blamed for things that couldn't possible be your fault</strong>. You'll be<strong>&nbsp;told how you feel</strong>, and it will be completely wrong. You'll be&nbsp;<strong>told what you think</strong>, and no one every asked you. Sound familiar? That's how #Hijackals roll.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>No emotional safety</strong>&nbsp;when you're in a relationship with a Hijackal!</p><p><br></p><p>Today's episode offers insights into the <strong>crazy-making minds of narcissists</strong>, <strong>narcissistic #Hijackals</strong>, anti-social people, and <strong>drama queens.</strong>..and, of course, <strong>drama kings</strong>.</p><p><br></p><p>Once, you recognize this, you'll need more information to change that. You'll find that in&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.relationshiphelpnetwork.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">many other episodes of this podcast,</a>&nbsp;and on&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.youtube.com/forrelationshiphelp\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">my YouTube channel,</a>&nbsp;too.</p><p><br></p><p>Listen to today's episode, and, if by chance, you're still wondering if you have had a #Hijackal in your life,&nbsp;<strong>grab my free ebook, How to Spot a Hijackal®</strong>&nbsp;at&nbsp;<a href=\"http://hijackals.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Hijackals.com</a>&nbsp;. You need to know what's up.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Why #Hijackal must blame and find fault</strong></li><li>Why that<strong>&nbsp;blame is all coming your way</strong></li><li><strong>Destructive patterns</strong>&nbsp;you can notice right now, and move away from</li><li>One BIG STRATEGY to do right away to&nbsp;<strong>change things positively</strong>...if possible.</li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p>If you need help with any part of the journey with--and from--a #Hijackal, I'm here for you.&nbsp;<strong>Let's talk soon. Want my help? I make it easy and accessible for you to have your&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>first one-hour session with me for only $97.</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Make positive changes NOW.</p><p><br></p><p>Big hugs,</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,</strong></p><p><strong>The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>P.S. 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RHOBERTA SHALER:</strong></p><p><strong>Website:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"http://transformingrelationship.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">TransformingRelationship.com</a></p><p><strong>Podcasts:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpnetwork.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">RelationshipHelpNetwork.com</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">RelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p><strong>Twitter:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://app.pippa.io/shows/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/episodes/Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://linkedin.com/in/RhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>Pinterest:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>YouTube</strong>:&nbsp;<a href=\"https://youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"http://www.mentalhealthnewsradionetwork.com/our-shows/save-your-sanity/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>You can also listen to the last 32 episodes of Save Your Sanity on Mental Health News Radio Network.&nbsp;</strong></a>That's a great place to get in-depth insights for shoring up mental and emotional health of all kinds.</p><p><br></p><p>#Hijackals #verbalabuse #toxcirelationships #jealousy #noexcuseforabuse #passive-aggressive #toxicpeople #emotionalabuse #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #toxicrelationships #manipulativepeople #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorders #MHNRNetwork #emotionalsafety #selfcenteredpeople #narcissistsworldview #overcomingnarcissisticabuse</p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}