{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5c329293195e9c5b73e05440?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"Steps to Stopping Verbal Violence in Your Work Life ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1546815731691-58196d30a0c06991f4e33dfacf6488bd.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Verbal Violators</strong> <strong>in any work situation make working together next to impossible. </strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>At a minimum, they make you cringe, avoid, and prefer to take sick days over going to work.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>In my book, <a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Wrestling-Rhinos-Conquering-Conflict-Wilds/dp/0971168989/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1546818332&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=wrestling+rhinos+conflict\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Wrestling Rhinos: Conquering Conflict in the Wilds of Work</a>, I talk about folks who commit \"<strong>malpractice of the mouth</strong>!\" Those are verbal violators, <strong>verbal abusers</strong>. These folks have control issues that lead to anger issues that lead to rage and lack of reason. And, they think they're right.</p><p><br></p><p>You know that I talk about my term,<strong> Hijackals®</strong>. Those are the difficult, the r<strong>elentlessly difficult people</strong> in life who just have to run everything, including their mouths! Well, you meet them at work, too.</p><p><br></p><p>In today's episode, I'm giving you some thoughts on how to proceed when you're around folks whose \"mouths enrage before their minds engage\" as I say in <a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Wrestling-Rhinos-Conquering-Conflict-Wilds/dp/0971168989/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1546818332&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=wrestling+rhinos+conflict\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Wrestling Rhinos.</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>Three things that definitely cause verbal violence to erupt</li><li>Two things that must happen to make the working environment safe for all</li><li>What to do if you are the violator</li><li>How to speak up and set boundaries if you're being violated</li></ul><p>I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.</p><p><br></p><p>Let's talk soon. I can help.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/free-consult\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Schedule an initial hour consultation HERE</a>&nbsp;for only $97.</p><p><br></p><p>I hope this&nbsp;<strong>empowers you to make positive changes NOW.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Talk soon.</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,</strong></p><p><strong>The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>P.S. 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