{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5bf088eca56323934b10f4f4?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"3 Assertive Things To Do When Your Partner or Parent Refuses to Take Responsibility with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1578718495121-b3274619e2e04feae87ce42a5092a218.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®</strong></p><p><strong>with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>3 ASSERTIVE THINGS TO DO WHEN YOUR PARTNER REFUSES TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY </strong></p><p><br></p><p>It's so infuriating, right? A difficult partner, or parent, refuses to take responsibility for anything that isn't praise-worthy. S/he will step right in if they can <strong>take credit for something good</strong>, though. But, when something goes sideways, it's all you, <strong>all your fault ,</strong> right?</p><p><br></p><p>You don't mean to, but you may well be <strong>enabling that difficult person</strong>, that #Hijackal. Enabling is something you can stop doing! That's the good news.</p><p><br></p><p>You deserve better than a relationship that keeps you down, and supposedly responsibility for all sorts of things that you didn't do, think, or say!</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Today's episode will give you insights into:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>why <strong>Hijackals</strong>® have to <strong>make everything your fault</strong></li><li>what you can do within yourself to <strong>stop enabling poor behavior</strong></li><li>what to say when a Hijackal <strong>makes things your fault</strong>, especially things that aren't at all.</li><li>eight questions to ask yourself about the <strong>patterns in your abusive relationship</strong></li><li>why it is essential to get help as soon as you can</li></ul><p><br></p><p>I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.</p><p><br></p><p>Let's talk soon. I can help.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/free-consult\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Schedule an initial hour consultation HERE</a>&nbsp;for only $97.</p><p><br></p><p>I hope this&nbsp;<strong>empowers you to make positive changes NOW.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Talk soon.</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,</strong></p><p><strong>The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>P.S. Subscribe to my&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/subscribe\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>newsletter, Tips for Relationships, HERE.</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!</strong></p><p><strong>If you&nbsp;want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,</strong></p><p><strong>join my Support Circle now.</strong></p><p><strong>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.</strong></p><p><strong>WOW! Join now.&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/community\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowe</a><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">red Community.</a>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:</strong></p><p><strong>Website:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"http://transformingrelationship.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">TransformingRelationship.com</a></p><p><strong>Podcasts:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpnetwork.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">RelationshipHelpNetwork.com</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">RelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p><strong>Twitter:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://app.pippa.io/shows/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/episodes/Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://linkedin.com/in/RhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>Pinterest:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"http://www.mentalhealthnewsradionetwork.com/our-shows/save-your-sanity/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>You can also listen to the last 32 episodes of Save Your Sanity on Mental Health News Radio Network.&nbsp;</strong></a>That's a great place to get in-depth insights for shoring up mental and emotional health of all kinds.</p><p><br></p><p>#Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople&nbsp;#stopenabling #difficultpeople #enablingabuse #takesnoresponsibility</p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}