{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5bd51a4f338861a07cf727fc?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"10 Reasons You May Have For Not Walking Away From Your Abuser","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1578712599665-078752b167e0820bd9c4bed265e8fadb.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®</strong></p><p><strong>with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>10 REASONS YOU MAY HAVE FOR NOT WALKING AWAY FROM YOUR ABUSER</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Could any of these things be true? </strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>Your relationship is bad. And, you don't want to admit it.</li><li>You keep hoping that things will get better.</li><li>You make excuses for your partner's outbursts.</li><li>You believe your abuser when s/he says you are nothing worth having, and no one else would want you.</li><li>You hang onto the last time you heard \"I love you\" and fool yourself that it is true.</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Any of these sound familiar? You're not alone. And, these aren't even the ten reasons in today's episode!</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Who wants to believe they are being abused?</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Yet, <strong>you are being abused</strong>. And, yes, that is the only word that covers it.</p><p><br></p><p>S/he is not going through a bad time, stressed, depressed, or repressed. S/he is like that most of the time, and wants you to think it's your fault, right?</p><p><br></p><p>Well, <strong>it isn't your fault</strong> that s/he is unhappy, nor is it your fault that they are angry, upset, yelling, stomping, or threatening.</p><p>It also isn't your fault if s/he is frozen and giving you the dreaded <strong>Silent Treatment.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>All those are choices your partner, parent, friend, or co-worker is making in response to their lives. They could choose differently but they don't because <strong>they want to make you believe it's all your fault.</strong> And also, being Hijackals, they will take responsibility for nothing, nor be accountable for anything.</p><p><br></p><p>So, today's episode gives you <strong>ten reasons you may be using in your head that may be keeping you in an abusive situation. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>Once your recognize the truth in them you can change all that. It won't be easy, but it is best. You can have a healthy life!</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Today's episode will give you insights into:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li><strong>why you don't want to recognize the abuse</strong></li><li>what scares you about actually calling it the abuse it is</li><li>how you have been groomed to put up with the <strong>emotional abuse,</strong> and <strong>verbal abuse</strong></li><li>how the Hijackal reinforces your <strong>fears about leaving</strong></li><li>the real facts about what's real and what's not about leaving</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Hijackals are&nbsp;<strong>toxic people</strong>&nbsp;who create&nbsp;<strong>toxic relationships</strong>! It's SO important not to respond with toxicity to them.</p><p>Most important reason: you won't like yourself when you do!</p><p><br></p><p>I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.</p><p><br></p><p>Let's talk soon. I can help.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/free-consult\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Schedule an initial hour consultation HERE</a>&nbsp;for only $97.</p><p><br></p><p>I hope this&nbsp;<strong>empowers you to make positive changes NOW.</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Talk soon.</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,</strong></p><p><strong>The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>P.S. Subscribe to my&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/subscribe\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>newsletter, Tips for Relationships, HERE.</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>FINDING MY CONTENT USEFUL? 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