{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5b2ebe8ef0adc89e2cef945b?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"5 Telling Things People Say That Show Their Passive-Aggressive Sides","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1578706749477-49824d424e956d438d37a22f0caa3db1.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®</strong></p><p><strong>with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>5 Telling Things People Say That Show Their Passive-Aggressive Sides</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>When you experience passive-aggressive behavior from someone, it messes with your head. You question yourself. You second-guess yourself. It's crazy-making. </strong></p><p><br></p><p>A passive-aggressive behavior pattern in someone leaves you feeling confused, second-guessing yourself, and questioning your sanity. \"Did I? Didn't I? I thought I did. I thought we agreed. Didn't we?\" Sound familiar?</p><p><br></p><p>You know about Hijackals® from my books and podcasts. One thing for sure is that all Hijackals are passive-aggressive, but not all passive-aggressive people are Hijackals. That's important to note, because passive-aggression may be the only truly annoying this about the person.</p><p><br></p><p>Once you can put your finger on what's <strong>so annoying</strong>, you can <strong>set some boundaries,</strong> and <strong>communicate more clearly about what you need and want</strong>. That's important with a passive-aggressive person.</p><p><br></p><p>(If you're wondering if the person you have in mind is actually passive-aggressive, I have a<strong> free checklist </strong>for you at <a href=\"http://www.PassiveAggressiveChecklist.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">PassiveAggressiveChecklist.com</a> )</p><p><br></p><p>These five things in today's episode are \"tells.\" If someone does them more than once in a blue moon, you may be watching passive-aggression play out.</p><p><br></p><p>Read my ebook, <a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Stop-Thats-Crazy-Making-Playing-Passive-Aggressive-ebook/dp/B0092ROCS8/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1529984310&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=stop+that%27s+crazy-making+passive-aggressive\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Stop! That's Crazy-Making! How to Quit Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game</strong></a>.</p><p><br></p><p>Or,<strong> </strong><a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Hijackal-Trap-Aggression-HijackalTM-Relentlessly-ebook/dp/B01724H3QA/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1529984250&amp;sr=8-2&amp;keywords=rhoberta+shaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>The Hijackal Trap: The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression</strong></a><strong> .</strong> Both downloadable from Amazon.</p><p><br></p><p>If you need help with this, I'm here for you. Subscribe to my&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/subscribe\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>newsletter, Tips for Relationships, HERE.</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Let's talk soon. I can help.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/free-consult\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">R</a>eady to talk? One-hour introductory session for only $97 <a href=\"http://BeAClient.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">BeAClient.com</a></p><p><br></p><p>I hope this empowers you to make positive changes.</p><p><br></p><p>Talk soon.</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,</strong></p><p><strong>The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!</strong></p><p>If you&nbsp;want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,</p><p><strong>join my Support Circle now.</strong></p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.</p><p>WOW! Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/community\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowe</a><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">red Community.</a>&nbsp;.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. 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