{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5b0af1c54bc8e06813c78696?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"12 Things Passive-Aggressive People ALWAYS Do, But Don't Often Realize","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1578704898334-251be53ceba7273e3bf3ae8b5924684d.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>SAVE YOUR SANITY: HELP FOR HANDLING HIJACKALS®</strong></p><p><strong>with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>12 THINGS PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE PEOPLE ALWAYS DO, BUT DON'T OFTEN REALIZE. </strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>You want to be seen, know, loved, and valued</strong>. Of course, you do. Yet, you may be afraid to really enter into relationships. One way people think protects them from intimacy is to adopt passive-aggressive behaviors.</p><p><br></p><p>You <strong>push people away with passive-aggressive behaviors</strong>, right when you're longing for them to come closer. The good news is that you can change. And, if the passive-aggressive behaviors belong to someone else, you can learn how to recognize what's going on and make some changes. That's what today's podcast is all about.</p><p><br></p><p>You know about Hijackals®, those relentlessly difficult, toxic, disturbing--and often dangerous--people we talk about here on Save Your Sanity. Well, <strong>all Hijackals are passive-aggressive</strong>, <strong>but not all passive-aggressive people are Hijackals.</strong> That's good news, because you might have been thinking otherwise.</p><p><br></p><p>In today's episode, I'm sharing twelve things--<strong>twelve infuriating things</strong>--that passive-aggressive people do that can drive others crazy. And, unfortunately, can drive them away.</p><p><br></p><p>I mentioned my<strong> free </strong><a href=\"http://www.PassiveAggressiveChecklist.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>PassiveAggressiveChecklist.com</strong></a><strong> </strong>site, where you can dive deeply into learning more about yourself or that person whose crazy-making behaviors are causing you to wonder if you want to be around them. Understanding what is passive-aggressive, and what is not is the best place to start. The Checklist is in-depth. In fact, it has two parts. When you complete the first and you recognize you need to know more, the <a href=\"http://www.PassiveAggressiveChecklist.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">checklist</a> generates a second checklist for you to complete. It's a <a href=\"http://www.PassiveAggressiveChecklist.com\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">really effective learning tool. </a></p><p><br></p><p>Think about these twelve things in today's podcast.&nbsp;<strong>How many are present within you, or within in your relationship with the others. How's that working for you? </strong> Whether that's your partner, ex, mother, father, friend, or co-worker, you want to understand what's really going on.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Notice what you are feeling. Ask yourself these questions after you listen:</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li>Do I ever behave in any of these ways?</li><li>How do I currently respond when others behave like this?</li><li>Is it serving me? Is it serving them?</li><li>Am I completely kind and honest in my communications?</li><li>Do I tell the truth--again kindly and honestly--when asked for my opinion, or whether or not I'll do something?</li><li>Do I drag my feet once I've agreed to do something? Does someone I care about?</li><li>How can I release my own passive-aggressive tendencies?</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Start with yourself. Then, <strong>learn to manage passive-aggressive behaviors and relationships</strong>. I've done a few videos on my <a href=\"https://youtube.com/ForRelationshipHelp\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">YouTube channel to help you learn more. Subscribe to it HERE. </a></p><p><br></p><p>You can make it stop. Let's talk soon. I can help.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/free-consult\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Schedule a free consultation HERE.</a></p><p><br></p><p>I hope this empowers you to make positive changes.</p><p><br></p><p>Talk soon.</p><p>Rhoberta</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,</strong></p><p><strong>The Relationship Help Doctor</strong></p><p><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">ForRelationshipHelp.com</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!</strong></p><p>If you&nbsp;want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,</p><p><strong>join my Support Circle now.</strong></p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.</p><p>WOW! Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/community\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowe</a><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">red Community.</a>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. 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