{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/5ae8a6b6840b09bc329898ba?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"5 Ways to Recognize Passive-Aggressive Behavior ","thumbnail_width":200,"thumbnail_height":200,"thumbnail_url":"https://open-images.acast.com/shows/5ac99d250c3456504c56d1b8/1576188938911-ad246472a930e9e13a168eacafb2886b.jpeg?height=200","description":"<p><strong>Today's Save Your Sanity Podcast: Help for Handling Hijackals®</strong></p><p><strong>from Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor </strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Passive-aggressive behavior</strong> is frustrating, infuriating, and frankly...unfair!</p><p><br></p><p>And, <strong>passive-aggressive behavior is sneaky</strong>! In fact, so sneaky that you're often caught up in thinking that it actually makes some sense...at first, or for a while. Then, it dawns on you: Something's not right with this but I can't quite put my finger on it.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Passive-aggressive behavior is undermining</strong>. In the moment, and in the aftermath, your head spins. You wonder if you were the one who made a mistake. It's <strong>crazy-making</strong>!</p><p><br></p><p>So, today, Dr. Shaler offers you five ways to watch for that <strong>passive-aggressive behavior</strong> shows up. You can then recognize it more easily.</p><p><br></p><p>BUT, it's never very helpful to tell another person that their <strong>behavior is passive-aggressive</strong>. It's highly unlikely to get you anywhere good. Learn why.</p><p><br></p><p>Listen to this short podcast and learn how to listen for passive-aggressive stuff coming at you, and well as from you. It can be tricky!</p><p><br></p><p>Oh, <strong>Dr. Shaler has also written two books</strong> to give you even more insights, strategies, and skills:</p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Stop-Thats-Crazy-Making-Playing-Passive-Aggressive-ebook/dp/B0092ROCS8/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1525227223&amp;sr=8-5&amp;keywords=rhoberta+shaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Stop! That's Crazy-Making! How to Quit Playing the Passive-Aggressive Game</strong></a><strong> </strong></p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"https://www.amazon.com/Hijackal-Trap-Aggression-HijackalTM-Relentlessly-ebook/dp/B01724H3QA/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1525227223&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=rhoberta+shaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>The Hijackal Trap: The Hidden Anger of Passive-Aggression</strong></a></p><p><br></p><p>Available at Amazon along with her other books.</p><p><br></p><p><a href=\"http://passive-aggressive.net\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>TAKE DR. SHALER'S FREE PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE CHECKLIST HERE!</strong></a> Find out what's up for sure.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Want to work with Dr. Shaler? </strong><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Introductory session for new clients, $97</strong></a><strong> \\</strong></p><p><br></p><p>Good tips for knowing what to do and how to respond.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:</strong></p><p><strong>Website:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"http://transformingrelationship.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">TransformingRelationship.com</a></p><p><strong>Podcasts:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpnetwork.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">RelationshipHelpNetwork.com</a></p><p><strong>Facebook:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">RelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p><strong>Twitter:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://app.pippa.io/shows/5ac9a352ef7a4c2376786ec9/episodes/Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>LinkedIn:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://linkedin.com/in/RhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>Instagram:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler</a></p><p><strong>Pinterest:&nbsp;</strong><a href=\"https://www.pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Pinterest.com/TheRelationshipHelpDoctor</a></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Want to work with Dr. Shaler? </strong><a href=\"https://forrelationshiphelp.com/join\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Introductory session for new clients, $97</strong></a><strong> </strong></p><p><br></p><p><strong><span class=\"ql-cursor\"></span>I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!</strong></p><p>If you&nbsp;want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,</p><p><strong>join my Support Circle now.</strong></p><p>Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.</p><p>WOW! Join now.&nbsp;<a href=\"https://www.forrelationshiphelp.com/community\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowe</a><a href=\"http://relationshiphelpcircles.com/\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">red Community.</a>&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>#passiveaggressive #passiveaggression #annoyingpeople #toomuchprocrastination #toomuchforgetting</p><p><strong>#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #systemicabuse #sexualabuse #physicalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse #boundaries #personalitydisorder #difficultpeople #journorequest #prrequest&nbsp;</strong></p>","author_name":"Dr. Rhoberta Shaler"}