{"version":"1.0","type":"rich","provider_name":"Acast","provider_url":"https://acast.com","height":250,"width":700,"html":"<iframe src=\"https://embed.acast.com/$/2fec86c4-2f6a-5de0-abd4-1301a5d509fc/6a97f556da248a131d63abf4?\" frameBorder=\"0\" width=\"700\" height=\"250\"></iframe>","title":"How to Stop Avoiding Difficult Conversations: 6 Signs It's You","description":"<p>When you have an underperformer on your team, but you haven’t given them specific performance feedback, you're reinforcing their underperformance.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>They may think that no news is good news, and they don’t need to do anything different.</p><p><br></p><p>This is Day 2 of a 7-part series, recut from a live workshop I ran called <strong>Stop Rescuing Your Underperformers</strong>. I’m looking at one leadership blind spot each day.</p><p><br></p><p>There's a person on your team who isn't delivering, and the premise I’m exploring this week is that they're more likely to be a <em>symptom</em> of the problem, rather than the <em>root cause</em> of it.</p><p><br></p><p>Underperformers are made. They’re made by the things their leaders do, but can’t see the impact of.</p><p><br></p><p>Yesterday was about accountability. Today is the one that stops you fixing accountability: can you handle conflict, or is this your blind spot?</p><p><br></p><p>This one’s tricky, because it hides behind noble virtues. You tell yourself you're being kind. But in reality, you're not being kind; it’s more likely that you're protecting <em>yourself</em> from the discomfort of a difficult conversation.</p><p><br></p><p>————————</p><p><br></p><p>GET YOUR SCORE ON ALL SEVEN LEADERSHIP BLINDSPOTS, HERE:</p><p><br></p><p>https://score.leadershipbeyondthetheory.com/workshop</p><p><br></p><p>————————</p><p><br></p><p>The 7 Leadership Blind Spots, one a day:</p><p><br></p><p>1. Drive Accountability. Do people deliver for you, or do they make excuses? (<a href=\"http://www.yourceomentor.com/episode418\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Ep.418</a>)</p><p><br></p><p>2. Handle Conflict. Can you have the tough conversations that weak leaders avoid? (<a href=\"http://www.yourceomentor.com/episode419\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\" target=\"_blank\">Ep.419</a>)</p><p><br></p><p>Tomorrow, blind spot three, and it's my own. Working at the right level.</p><p><br></p><p>————————</p><p><br></p><p>Leadership Beyond the Theory link:</p><p><br></p><p>https://www.leadershipbeyondthetheory.com/</p><p><br></p><p>————————</p><p><br></p><p>You can connect with me at:</p><p><br></p><p>Website: https://www.yourceomentor.com</p><p><br></p><p>Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourceomentor</p><p><br></p><p>Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourceomentor</p><p><br></p><p>Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/martin-moore-075b001/</p><p><br></p><p>Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@YourCEOMentor</p><p><br></p><p><br></p>","author_name":"Martin G Moore"}