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Amiga, Handle Your Shit

Dream Big, Amigas!

Season 3, Ep. 94

What are your BIG dreams?


No, I’m not talking about a ‘reasonable’ or ‘manageable’ dream…I’m talking about the dreams that are intimidating and exhilarating to think about. Whatever those dreams may be, I hope that you look to inspiring amigas in the world to help you face your fears and work to make those dreams come true. 


In this episode, I have compiled some of my favorite moments from some of the top episodes of Amiga Handle Your Shit! I have been so blessed with the guests that have joined me throughout every episode of this podcast. While they each have shared important, evergreen lessons they’ve learned along their journey, there are a few in particular that I am sure will remind you to be the CEO of your life this summer and beyond. 


Tune in to Episode 94 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, and hear a compilation of some of my favorite segments from a few of the incredible guests I have had the pleasure of interviewing. You will hear inspiring stories that will provide you a refreshing perspective on the importance of not getting stuck in the past and propelling yourself towards your dream future!


In This Episode, You Will Learn:

  • Inspiration for living with intention (6:11)
  • To stop thinking about the past and start imagining your dream future (18:06)
  • The value of education for amigas (22:52)
  • Why it’s important to uncover any shame you may have (33:00)
  • To let your yes be yes and your no be no (48:01)


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