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289. She Was Told No Studio Would Touch It. Six Years Later, C. Fitz Finished Jewel's Catch One Anyway
28:11||Season 6, Ep. 289Some stories rarely get told, not because they aren't important, but because nobody believes there's an audience. C. Fitz was told exactly that. No grants, no studio interest, just a two-to-three-minute tribute video that spiraled into something bigger. Six years and a ten-and-a-half-hour rough cut later, the world finally met Jewel Thais-Williams.In this episode of Amiga Handle Your Shit, Jackie Tapia sits down with C. Fitz, director and producer behind the award-winning documentary Jewel's Catch One, now re-released on Apple TV, Amazon, and Google Play. C. Fitz shares how she carved out a career as a female director in an industry that rarely encouraged one, moving from production assistant to commercials to unscripted television, including helping develop the original Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, before a volunteer project turned into the calling that would define her career. Her story matters because it's proof that the projects worth doing are rarely the easy ones, and that persistence, not permission, is often what preserves a legacy.The conversation traces how C. Fitz met Jewel Thais-Williams, the trailblazing founder of one of the first Black-owned discos in the country and a sanctuary for the LGBTQ+ and Black queer community through decades of racism, homophobia, police raids, and the AIDS crisis. They talk about the impossible task of condensing one woman's decades of impact into 85 minutes, the devastating history of the fire that burned Catch One to the ground, and why C. Fitz kept pitching a project nobody wanted to fund because she knew it was too important to let go.The most powerful moment comes when C. Fitz describes sitting beside Jewel in the theater as she watched her own story on screen, crying during the AIDS crisis chapter of the film. After years of being overlooked by the very industry that should have celebrated her, Jewel finally received a standing ovation, not once, but across film festivals from Los Angeles to London. It's a reminder of what it means to finally be seen after a lifetime of quietly showing up for everyone else.Tune in to episode 289 of Amiga Handle Your Shit for a moving conversation about persistence, representation, and what it takes to ensure the people who quietly change our communities are never forgotten.Episode TakeawaysHow C. Fitz carved out her own path as a female director, working up from production assistant to commercials to helping develop the original Queer Eye for the Straight Guy (04:24)The volunteer tribute video that turned into a calling: how one gala clip led to the realization that Jewel's life demanded a full documentary (09:47)Why C. Fitz kept pitching for years with no grants and no studio support, and what finally got the project made (11:45)The heartbreak of cutting a ten-and-a-half-hour rough cut down to 85 minutes (13:51)The harrowing story of the fire that burned Catch One down, and Jewel's defiant response to the city (15:34)What C. Fitz wants viewers to feel, while watching the film, like they've stepped onto that dance floor themselves (17:05)The emotional moment Jewel watched her own story on screen, and the standing ovations that followed from LA to London (19:56)C. Fitz's advice for handling your shit: breathe, take a beat, and get grounded before you react (21:53)Resources:Jewel’s Catch OneConnect with C. Fitz:InstagramIMDbLinkedInLet’s Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne websiteBook: The AMIGA Way: Release Cultural Limiting Beliefs to Transform Your Life
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288. Stop Being the Bottleneck in Your Own Life with Jackie Tapia
17:47||Season 6, Ep. 288Have you ever felt like life was asking more of you than you thought you could handle?Sometimes our busiest seasons are also our most beautiful. In this heartfelt solo episode, you'll be reminded that life isn't about perfectly managing every responsibility; it's about surrendering, trusting God's timing, and creating space to fully live through every season with grace. Whether you're navigating exciting milestones, unexpected challenges, or personal growth, this conversation encourages you to let go of control and embrace the support that's available to you.Tune in to this new episode of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, as Jackie shares a personal life update and reflects on the lessons she's learning during a season filled with both joy and responsibility. From planning her daughter's quinceañera and supporting her father through surgery to building new systems for her business and embracing the power of AI, Jackie opens up about what it means to stop being the bottleneck in your own life. She discusses the importance of surrendering control, asking for help, creating sustainable systems, and making room to enjoy the life you've worked so hard to build. This episode is a reminder that you don't have to carry everything alone, and that sometimes the greatest act of growth is allowing yourself to receive.Key Takeaways:✨ You don't have to carry everything alone✨ Surrender creates space for peace and clarity✨ Systems create freedom and reduce overwhelm✨ Asking for help is a sign of growth✨ Joy deserves a place in every season✨ Trust the divine unfolding of your lifeLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne websiteBuy The Amiga Way's Book
287. The Body Doesn't Lie: Eugenia Jansen on the Hidden Cost of Stress
44:04||Season 6, Ep. 287Some women wait until burnout forces them to slow down. Others get a warning from their bodies and keep pushing anyway. This conversation is a reminder that stress does not simply disappear. It settles into the body, waits patiently, and eventually asks to be heard.In this episode of Amiga Handle Your Shit, Jackie Tapia sits down with Eugenia Jansen, founder of Golden Lotus Gardens, former banking executive, and holistic practitioner specializing in craniosacral therapy, prenatal and postnatal care, fascia release, lymphatic work, and energy healing. Eugenia shares how a successful career in banking led her to a breaking point, including a series of mini-strokes caused by chronic stress, and how that experience completely changed the direction of her life.What makes this conversation so powerful is Eugenia's belief that the body carries far more than physical tension. She explains how emotions, trauma, grief, and even family patterns can become stored in the body and influence how we feel physically and emotionally. Through stories from her practice and her personal journey, she offers a different perspective on healing, one rooted in listening rather than fighting.Eugenia also opens up about the work she now does alongside her husband, helping everyone from pregnant mothers and newborns to cancer patients, athletes, and people navigating major life transitions. From understanding stress and nervous system overload to exploring the connection between emotional wellbeing and physical health, this is a conversation about learning to trust the wisdom of your body.Tune in to episode 287 of Amiga Handle Your Shit for a fascinating conversation about stress, healing, intuition, and why taking care of yourself is not selfish; it's necessary.Episode Takeaways:How a successful banking career led Eugenia to burnout, mini-strokes, and a complete life change (05:23)The physical signs that chronic stress is building up in the body and what happens when those signals go unaddressed (11:36)Why childhood interests can offer clues about your true purpose and life path (13:03)The surprising journey from corporate executive to holistic healer and massage therapist (17:26)What craniosacral therapy is, how it works, and why it can be transformative for people carrying trauma (20:28)How stored emotions, family experiences, and life events can show up as physical symptoms in the body (27:15)The healing modalities offered through Golden Lotus Gardens and who can benefit from them (33:08)Eugenia's advice for women who feel disconnected from themselves, their health, or their purpose (37:41)Connect with Eugenia Jansen:WebsiteInstagramEugenia’s Linktr.eeLet’s Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne websiteBook: The AMIGA Way: Release Cultural Limiting Beliefs to Transform Your Life
286. How to Thrive in Midlife with Terry Tateossian
40:18||Season 6, Ep. 286Have you ever looked around at your successful life and realized you lost yourself somewhere along the way?Many women spend years taking care of everyone else, building careers, raising families, and chasing success, only to find themselves exhausted, disconnected, and wondering how they got there. This episode is a powerful reminder that true transformation doesn't begin when everything falls apart. It begins when you finally decide to stop abandoning yourself and start prioritizing your own health, happiness, and well-being.Terry Tateossian is the founder of The House of Rose, a wellness community dedicated to helping women over 40 reclaim their health, confidence, and personal power. A former CEO of a nationally recognized marketing agency, Terry transformed her own life after overcoming burnout, emotional eating, and significant health challenges. Today, she is a certified trainer, nutritionist, hormone specialist, retreat leader, and host of the podcast How Good Can It Get?, where she empowers women to create vibrant, healthy, and fulfilling lives.Tune in to this new episode of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, as Jackie sits down with Terry Tateossian to discuss her remarkable journey from immigrant daughter and successful entrepreneur to wellness leader and advocate for women over 40. Terry shares how escaping communism as a child shaped her work ethic, how building a nationally recognized marketing agency led to burnout, emotional eating, and serious health challenges, and how a series of wake-up calls forced her to reclaim her health and her life. Together, they explore the realities of perimenopause, emotional healing, strength training, nutrition, and why women deserve to thrive in every season of life. This conversation is an inspiring reminder that your next chapter can become your most powerful one yet.Key Takeaways:✨ Success means little if you lose yourself✨ Your body always sends warning signs✨ Strength training becomes essential with age✨ Health transformation starts with self-awareness✨ It's never too late to reinvent yourself✨ Your next chapter can be your best oneConnect with Terry Tateossian:InstagramLinkedInThe House Of RoseLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne websiteBuy The Amiga Way's Book
285. Multiple Companies, One Festival, and a Second Chance: Inside Rose Garcia's Empire
38:34||Season 6, Ep. 285Some people get a wake-up call and make small adjustments. Rose Garcia got hers and decided to go all in on everything. This episode is proof of what happens when someone takes a second chance and refuses to let any part of it go to waste.In this episode of Amiga Handle Your Shit, Jackie Tapia sits down with Rose Garcia, a Latina entrepreneur, real estate veteran, ovarian cancer survivor, and the new co-owner of The Dinah, the legendary queer women's festival now heading into its 35th year. Rose talks about growing up Boricua and Salvadoran in Los Angeles, building a career in real estate after starting out as a teenage intern, and how that hustle eventually opened the door to owning a Hollywood nightclub and co-owning one of the biggest festivals in the LGBTQ community.What makes this conversation land differently is the part Rose almost did not get to tell. A swollen stomach sent her to the emergency room, and within days she was diagnosed with stage 3C ovarian cancer. Doctors gave her a timeline if treatment did not work. She walks through what it actually felt like to sit with that news, how she shifted into fight mode, and the lesson she still carries two years later, now cancer-free.Rose also opens up about her connection to “The L Word,” where her real life became the basis for a character, and what it meant to show a Latina Catholic family choosing love over judgment on national television. From East LA bars to red carpets to hospital waiting rooms, this is a conversation about showing up for your life, on your own terms.Tune in to episode 285 of Amiga Handle Your Shit for a Pride Month conversation about resilience, representation, and what it means to get a second chance and actually use it.Episode TakeawaysHow a teenage internship turned into a full career in real estate, and the network that made it possible (05:44)The story behind the Dinah, the 35-year-old queer women's festival now run by Rose and her business partner (08:26)How Rose's real life became the inspiration for a character on The L Word, and the road trip through East LA bars that started it all (12:10)What it meant to show a Catholic Latino family choosing acceptance, and the messages that came after (15:51)The swollen stomach, the ER visit, and the diagnosis that came faster than anyone expected (24:04)What stage 3C ovarian cancer treatment actually looked like, and the mindset shift that got her through it (27:08)Why Rose says cancer is not the death sentence it used to be, and what she changed in her life afterward (32:02)Connect with Rose Garcia:InstagramLinkedInThe DinahLet’s Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne websiteBook: The AMIGA Way: Release Cultural Limiting Beliefs to Transform Your Life
284. From Passing the Bar...to Passing the Baton: Reigniting Your 2.0 Life in the Age of AI
21:46||Season 6, Ep. 284Have you ever felt like the most exciting chapter of your life was behind you?Many women spend years building careers, raising families, achieving goals, and checking all the boxes, only to wake up one day feeling disconnected from the spark that once drove them. This episode is a reminder that reinvention doesn't belong to the young. It belongs to the curious. Whether you're feeling stuck, uninspired, or simply ready for something new, this conversation will encourage you to embrace growth, reclaim your curiosity, and trust that your best years may still be ahead.Tune in to this new episode of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, as Jackie provides a heartfelt reflection on rediscovering purpose, curiosity, and excitement in her 2.0 season of life. Looking back on her journey as a first-generation college student, attorney, entrepreneur, and woman navigating major life transitions, Jackie shares how the emergence of artificial intelligence unexpectedly reignited a level of enthusiasm she hadn't felt in decades. Through personal stories, spiritual insight, and practical encouragement, she invites listeners to become beginners again, embrace lifelong learning, and trust that God may be calling them into a new season of expansion. This episode is a powerful reminder that you are not starting over, you're starting aligned.Key Takeaways: ✨ Curiosity can reignite your passion for life ✨ Your best years may still be ahead ✨ Growth begins when you become a beginner again ✨ AI can be a tool for expansion, not fear ✨ You are not starting over, you're starting aligned ✨ God may be calling you into a new seasonLet's Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne websiteBuy The Amiga Way's Book
283. What the Scale Will Never Fix: A Real Talk on Body Image with Marisela Arechiga
42:03||Season 6, Ep. 283This one is personal. Not in the guest-on-a-stage kind of way. In the two-friends-sitting-down-telling-the-truth kind of way.In this episode of Amiga Handle Your Shit, Jackie Tapia turns the mic on herself and sits down with her friend Marisela Arechiga for a raw, unfiltered conversation about body image, the voices in our heads, and what it actually costs to grow up Latina in a culture that had opinions about your body before you did. Jackie opens up about a lifetime of body dysmorphia, from the nicknames she was given as a kid to the drastic diets she has cycled through as an adult, to the moment her own sister, a doctor, put a name to something Jackie already knew but had never said out loud.What makes this episode different is that Marisela is not just asking the questions. She is in it too. A lifelong athlete who spent years feeling underdeveloped on one end of the spectrum, and now, approaching 49, navigating perimenopause, muscle loss, and the particular frustration of doing everything right and still not seeing the number she wants. Two women, two completely different body stories, the same relentless inner critic.They talk about where these voices come from: the magazines, the celebrity postpartum bodies, the offhand comments from coaches and family that lodged somewhere deep and never fully left. They talk about how they are raising the next generation differently. And they get into the practical stuff too, GLP treatments, microdosing, and why attacking the physical without doing the mental work will keep you running a race with no finish line.Tune in to episode 283 of Amiga Handle Your Shit for the body image conversation most women are having in their heads but never out loud.Episode TakeawaysHow growing up Latina meant your body was everybody's business before it was yours (2:20)Why the comments from coaches and family land differently than anything a stranger could say (4:00)What celebrity postpartum culture did to an entire generation of new moms and how they saw their own recovery (5:10)The moment a doctor sister put a name to something Jackie already knew but had never said out loud (9:50)Why reaching your goal weight does not silence the voice, it just gives it new material (22:30)What body dysmorphia actually looks like from the inside at 52, hormones and all (24:10)How perimenopause changes the equation and what both women are doing about it (26:20)Why treating the body without the mental work keeps moving the finish line (33:40)How to stop the cycle before it reaches your daughter (17:40)The shift from wanting to be skinny to wanting to be strong, and why that reframe takes longer than anyone tells you (39:30)Connect with Marisela Arechiga:InstagramNew Generation Home Improvements WebsiteNew Generation Home Improvements InstagramLet’s Connect!WebsiteFacebookInstagramLinkedInJackie Tapia Arbonne websiteBook: The AMIGA Way: Release Cultural Limiting Beliefs to Transform Your Life