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#263 How to focus and love your work with Sophie Devonshire & Ben Renshaw

Season 2

This is the third of four episodes on how to find your focus. In this episode, Helen talks to authors Sophie Devonshire and Ben Renshaw about their new book 'Love Work' to understand the practical actions you can take to focus on the work that you love. Together they explore how to discover, develop and deliver work that feels personally meaning and motivating. Ways to learn more:


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3. Read our books 'The Squiggly Career' and 'You Coach You'


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