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Romanticising Travel: When Reality Doesn't Meet Expectations

Season 3, Ep. 110

So often in life we romanticise things in our head when in reality, it rarely lives up to expectations, and the same goes for travel destinations. In this episode we discuss some of the destinations we have over-hyped in our own heads. Equally, we explore some of the places we didn't expect much of that ended up blowing us away. We hope that this episode lives up to the hype and that you won't be disappointed!


00:00:00 Expectations vs. reality in travel

00:05:26 Be the change you want

00:11:09 Romanticizing places can lead to disappointment

00:16:34 Underwhelming experiences in travel

00:22:14 Underwhelming experiences at famous museums

00:27:32 Underwhelming Little Mermaid statue

00:32:37 Expectations can shape our experiences

00:41:15 Don't trust Instagram for travel

00:45:51 Expectations vs reality in travel

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