All That And Mo


Is That a Red Flag I see?

Ep. 41

It's super important to discuss kink and BDSM in the context of events, safety, and boundaries. Are you interested in exploring this exciting world, but don't know where to start?

On today's episode, we're going to be talking about red flags in the context of kink and BDSM.

My list?

🚩1. People who suggest that limits are not important

🚩2. People who craft a persona that might not be accurate

🚩3. Rigidity of rule

🚩4. People who use a lot of protocol and titles

🚩5. People who use punishments (in some cases)

🚩6. People who try to mold someone into something unrecognizable.

Remember to be honest about limits and to take your time when getting to know someone online. If you're interested in exploring kink and BDSM, take the time to consider these, and other any red flags that may crop up. Finally, always remember to always be mindful of the 'Prime Directive.'


A special, direct thank you to Amy W, Victoria B, Susanna E G, James R P, Kathleen A, Marshall F, Elizabeth S, Jackie B, Haddayr C-W, Scott J K, Abigail P, Marty W, Meg B, JP R, aeric meredith-goujon, Sinclair Sexsmith, KillerB1973, Sara L E, The Adipositivity Project, Kathleen M, Andrea, DK Leather, Stephanie S, Michelle D, and Michael O'B.

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