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Episode 86: Secrets to a Happy, Lasting Marriage with Eric & Lisa Raftery

Ep. 86

In this marriage-educational episode of the Aligned Mommas Podcast, hosts Nikki Trout and Samantha Capstick sit down with marriage experts Eric and Lisa Raftery to discuss how to truly make your marriage thrive. From the highs to the lows, Eric and Lisa share personal stories and practical tips that have helped strengthen their relationship the past 27 years helping them keep the spark alive, even through life’s challenges. Whether you’re feeling stuck in a “blah” phase or just looking to deepen your connection, this episode is packed with insights that really work.


Join us for practical advice, vulnerability, and strategies to bring the joy back into your marriage! And don’t forget to follow Eric and Lisa on Instagram at @yourmiddlelife for more relationship tips and inspiration for your own happy-ever-after marriage journey.


Be sure to join the Aligned Mommas Community Facebook group to connect with us and other mommas just like YOU! Share your thoughts, ask questions, and find support in our amazing community. Don't miss out on this opportunity to enrich your relationship and join a network of like-minded individuals!


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