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After Work Drinks
How Do We Deal With ‘Leaving Neverland’?
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Surprise! It’s an early edition of After Work Drinks this week because let’s be honest, there’s nothing we’re going to want to talk about more than the Michael Jackson documentary (and shocking allegations of abuse in Leaving Neverland). Unlike R. Kelly’s ‘Ignition’, it feels futile and impossible to try and ban or remove Michael Jackson’s music so, if we believe Wade and James, how do we move forward? And why, after all we’ve learned from #MeToo, are we still seeing the credibility of victims be viciously undermined? Plus, on a lighter note, we have a few good watches, reads and listens to ingest and Zadie Smith’s tip for productivity.
This episode deals with heavy issues including childhood sexual abuse. While we made the conscious decision not to discuss the allegations in any graphic detail, the topic may be distressing for some listeners. If you feel you need help, the below resources are helpful:
Lifeline: 13 11 14
1800 RESPECT: 1800 737 732
ChildWise: 1300 244 539
Recommendations:
Calypso by David Sedaris
https://www.booktopia.com.au/calypso-david-sedaris/prod9781408707821.html
The White Album by Joan Didion
https://www.booktopia.com.au/the-white-album-joan-didion/prod9780374532079.html
Russian Doll on Netflix
https://www.netflix.com/title/80211627
Exposed: The Case of Keli Lane on ABC
https://iview.abc.net.au/show/exposed-the-case-of-keli-lane
Esther Perel in the New Yorker
https://www.newyorker.com/culture/the-new-yorker-interview/love-is-not-a-permanent-state-of-enthusiasm-an-interview-with-esther-perel
‘Where Should We Begin?’ by Esther Perel season three on Audible
https://www.audible.com.au/pd/Esther-Perels-Where-Should-We-Begin-The-Arc-of-Love-Audiobook/B07H7P2DPR
Difficult Women by Roxanne Gay
https://www.hachette.com.au/roxane-gay/difficult-women
The Cut on Tuesdays
https://www.gimletmedia.com/the-cut-on-tuesdays
The OA - Netflix
https://www.netflix.com/title/80044950
Zadie Smith on The Toure Show
https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/cadence13/toure-show/e/53184632
Leaving Neverland by Dan Reed and HBO
https://tenplay.com.au/channel-ten/leaving-neverland/2019/3/leaving-neverland--part-2
'Reckoning with the Real Michael Jackson' The New York Times' The Daily
https://www.nytimes.com/2019/03/08/podcasts/the-daily/michael-jackson-abuse-leaving-neverland.html
The Michael Jackson accusers: ‘The abuse didn’t feel strange, because he was like a god’ by Hadley Freeman in The Guardian
https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2019/mar/04/the-michael-jackson-accusers-the-abuse-didnt-feel-strange-because-he-was-like-a-god
‘Why Oprah’s ‘Neverland’ special was so important’ by Taylor Weatherby for Billboard
https://www.billboard.com/articles/news/8501577/why-oprahs-leaving-neverland-special-was-so-important
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