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Adulting

#42 Why Do We Fall In Love? with Laura Mucha

Season 5

This week I speak to the author of 'Love Factually', Laura Mucha, about why, how and when we fall in love. We discuss the difference between lust and love, what attachment theory is and so much more! I hope you enjoy - please do rate review and subscribe.


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