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This ONE TRICK will stop Rejection Sensitivity destroying your marriage!

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In this week's bitesize clip, I speak with Karen Doherty, a relationship therapist who specialises in neurodivergent couples, to discuss strategies for RSD, and how to manage RSD in relationships.


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Visit Karen's website πŸ‘‰ https://karendohertycoaching.co.uk


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