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Acting On It with Gabby Ostuni

You're Not the Only One

Season 1, Ep. 21

Before taking a short break for the summer, I'm reflecting on everything this season of Acting On It has meant to me.

Through conversations with actors, artists, and creatives, I've been reminded that none of us are alone in our fears, doubts, setbacks, or dreams. This episode is a thank-you to every guest who showed up authentically, every listener who joined the conversation, and the community we've built together through honesty and vulnerability.

I'll be back in the fall with a brand-new season. Until then, thank you for being here.

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