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Academic Coaching for Parents with Dr Anna York-Weaving

#39 - My Child Did Badly in Mocks - What Should I Do Next?

Season 4, Ep. 3

Mock exam results can be unsettling, especially when they are lower than expected. Many parents feel pressure to act quickly, often assuming that more teaching or tutoring is the answer.


I take a step back and look at what disappointing mock results actually tell us. I then outline practical ways parents can respond to support early progress.


Rather than reacting with panic, we explore how mock results can be used as valuable feedback, highlighting what isn’t working yet and where change will have the greatest impact.


Drawing on my academic coaching work and research-informed practice, I walk through my five-pillar framework for diagnosing underperformance and transforming how students learn and perform in exams.


🎙️ In this episode, you will learn:


✅ How to use disappointing mock results as a diagnostic tool


✅ Why learning methods, not just effort, affect exam performance


✅ How poor time management and unrealistic revision plan undermine progress


✅ Why focus, environment and screen time matter more than many parents realise


✅ How motivation is linked to long-term vision, not pressure or “trying harder”


This episode is designed to help parents respond calmly, logically and effectively, using mock results as an opportunity to strengthen learning systems well before the final exams.


🔗 Links & Resources


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👉 Interested in personalised academic coaching? Book a free 30-minute consultation via my website to discuss what might be holding your child back and how to address it: https://www.york-weaving-education.co.uk/


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