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4. Pod Mapping for Radical Relating
41:41||Season 1, Ep. 4In this episode of A Secret Third Thing, Jet and Ren record themselves while presenting live to an audience of people from their locale (the Midwest) and talk about the importance of Pod Mapping when carving out intentional non-traditional relationships. They also respond in real time to questions from their curious audience. Content Note: This was recorded outside near a busy road. We did the best we could to minimize noise interference but the audio is harsher than our other content.TranscriptResourcesPod Mapping (BATJ)Pacing Protocol
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3. Rejection
47:15||Season 1, Ep. 3In this episode Jet and Ren discuss the theme of rejection and the ways that it has shown up in their lives as a window in to how it plays a bigger role in disconnection within the queer community.Episode TranscriptReferences/Resources:Access Intimacy - Mia MingusRA Smorgasbord - Maxx Hill"Fucking Trans Women" - Mira Bellwether2. The Pandemic Fucked Us
53:35||Season 1, Ep. 2In this episode, Jet and Ren discuss the ways the pandemic has impacted their relationship with each other and with their desires more generally. Episode TranscriptReferences/Resources:PanzineQueer Desire Party Zine1. Introduction
49:52||Season 1, Ep. 1In this episode, Jet and Ren introduce themselves and the podcast by sharing about their secret third things and their journeys to get to where they are in understanding their orientations towards intimate relationships.Episode transcriptionReferences/Resources:Earthseed - Octavia ButlerRA Manifesto - Andie NordgrenPod Mapping - Mia MingusRA Smorgasbord - Maxx HillNRE - Multiamory PodcastAromantic Manifesto - yingchen & yingtongDisability Justice - Sins Invalid