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We Asked Men: Is it Okay for a Woman to Propose to a Man?
Should a woman propose to a man, or is that still considered breaking tradition? In this episode of A Girls Perspective, we dive into the proposal debate and ask the real question—do men actually like when women propose? Or is this still an uncomfortable topic in modern dating?
We took the conversation straight to men to find out their real thoughts on female-led proposals, and the responses were not what we expected! 😳
In this episode, we discuss:
💡 Do men feel uncomfortable being proposed to?
💡 Why don’t more women propose?
💡 Should women wait for men to propose?
💡 Public proposals vs private proposals—what do men prefer?
💡 Why do some proposals fail?
As women navigating adulthood, we’re questioning whether marriage proposal gender roles are outdated or if there’s still a reason why men traditionally take the lead.
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💬 Would YOU propose to your man, or is that a hard NO? Let’s debate in the comments!👇
Timestamps:
00:00 Invest in Those Who Invest in You
00:26 The Pettiest Thing on TikTok
02:00 Petty Confessions and Stories
11:24 Understanding Adult Friendships
11:32 Creating a Consolidated Friend Group
16:37 The Reality of TV Friendships
19:38 The Complexity of Adult Friendships
20:19 Exploring Past Lives and Karma
20:52 The Desire for a Close Friend Group
23:04 Men's Views on Women Proposing
25:35 Debating Gender Roles in Proposals
26:54 Personal Preferences for Proposals
31:53 Introducing the New Segment: What Grinds My Gears
32:36 Booty Diggers: A Hilarious Anecdote
40:44 AI in Therapy: A Controversial Discussion
48:05 Wrapping Up: Engagement and Gratitude
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Join hosts Jocelyn and Jade for a weekly dose of relatable rants, real talk, and humor! From navigating adulting and friendships to spilling secrets and sharing hot takes, we’re here to keep it real.
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