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Hookup Horror Stories and Holiday Drama | Ep 53

Ep. 53

Hookup Horror Stories, Holiday Boundaries, and Pop-up Visits: Navigating Modern Friendships

In this lively episode, Jocelyn and Jade delve into the hilarious and sometimes cringe-worthy world of 'hookup horror stories,' sharing listener submissions that will leave you wide-eyed. The duo also tackles the complex emotions tied to holiday gatherings, discussing the pressure and obligation that often come with family traditions and offering practical advice on how to maintain personal boundaries. To round it off, the hosts dive into the nostalgia and modern realities of spontaneous friend visits, sharing their take on whether popping up unannounced is a friendship goal or a social faux pas. Don't miss this entertaining and thought-provoking episode!


00:00 Introduction and Question of the Week

00:12 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 1

04:37 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 2

08:00 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 3

10:48 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 4

14:15 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 5

16:35 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 6

18:56 Hookup Horror Stories: Part 7

26:32 Friendship Files: Holiday Gift Giving

35:42 Inflatable Sumo Wrestlers and Christmas Gifts

36:47 The Dutch Oven Dilemma

37:14 Are We Wrong? Skipping Christmas

41:51 Mental Health and Holiday Stress

50:24 Main Character Moment: Finding Peace

01:04:24 Unannounced Visits and Friendship Dynamics

01:09:20 Weekly Poll and Closing Remarks

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