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MJ Acosta-Ruiz: NFL Host on Breaking Barriers & Embracing the Journey

Season 1

Summary

MJ Acosta Ruiz, the first Afro-Latina woman host for the NFL, shares her journey in the broadcast industry and the challenges she faced as a woman and minority. She talks about her passion for performance and how it led her to the broadcast space. MJ also discusses her experience as an NFL cheerleader and the rigorous audition process. She emphasizes the importance of mentors and the support she received from her colleagues. MJ reflects on the highs and lows of her career and the resilience required to succeed. She also discusses her exploration of acting and the joy of surrendering and being vulnerable in that space. Finally, MJ shares her plans for the future and the importance of embracing her true self outside of her job.


Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

02:20 Discovering the Broadcast Space

07:49 Challenges and Stigmas in the Sports Industry

16:23 The Importance of Fearlessness and Resolve

32:30 Re-examining Identity and Embracing the Journey

39:22 Advice for Younger Self and Embracing Authenticity


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