Healing with Teeling

On today’s episode of Healing with Teeling, we dive deep into the many roles women play, the high-achieving career woman, the over-giving fixer, the independent lone wolf, the fit and flawless gym queen, the devoted mother and explore what happens when those roles take over.We talk about:Why showing up as your “protected self” keeps you safe… but also keeps you lonely.How past heartbreak, hurt, and old beliefs shape the way you show up in love.The archetypes that secretly run your dating life: The Fixer, The Ice Queen, The Overachiever, The Love Addict, and The Lone Wolf.How to reconnect with the version of you that feels joyful, free, and authentically seen.Why perfection, achievement, and high standards might be attracting the wrong men and how to shift that.This episode is for the high-achieving, career-focused women who are tired of dating emotionally unavailable men, tired of settling, and ready to finally understand who they are under the armour, the achievements, and the roles.By the end of this episode, you’ll understand:How to start uncovering who you truly are.Why you attract what you are, not what you want.The first steps to falling in love with yourself authentically.Next StepsIf today’s episode resonated with you, there are a few ways I can support you:Take the “Why Am I Still Single?” Quiz - Discover which archetype is currently leading your love life and gain clarity on how to shift it.Book an Empowerment Session - Work with me 1:1 to uncover your patterns, heal old heartbreak, and create a personalised roadmap to the love and life you deserve. Book your session hereBeYou Blueprint Course - A self-led course designed to help you reconnect with your authentic self, heal from past heartbreak, and start attracting love that’s aligned with who you truly are.Adored Masterclass (Free) - Learn the steps to start a love affair with yourself — beyond buying flowers or treating yourself. Dive into the real work of self-understanding and emotional alignment.You don’t need to become someone else to be loved. You need to come home to who you really are.🔗 Links Mentioned in This EpisodeTake the Quiz: Why Am I Still Single?Book an Empowerment SessionBeYou Blueprint CourseAdored Masterclass

Are you an amazing, successful, and self-aware woman who still struggles to find and keep the right relationship? In today’s episode of Healing with Teeling, I dive into the subconscious patterns that may be secretly running your love life and keeping you single.We explore five love-blocking archetypes, the Fixer, the Ice Queen, the Overachiever, the Love Addict, and the Lone Wolf and how they show up in your dating life. These archetypes aren’t flaws they’re protective strategies your subconscious created to keep you safe. But they might also be repelling the love you truly desire.In this episode I share:Why “everything’s right” but you’re still singleHow your subconscious may be controlling your dating choicesWhat each archetype looks like and how it impacts your relationshipsWays to start nurturing your inner self so you can open up to lovePlus,I introduces you to my quiz “Why Am I Still Single?” to help you pinpoint which archetype is running your love life and how to start shifting these patterns.Take the quiz, discover your archetype, and slide into my DMs on Insta to discuss how it’s showing up in your life. This is your first step toward ending old patterns and finally attracting the love you deserve.Take the quiz: Why Am I Still Single?Join the waitlist for the Having a Love Affair with Yourself masterclass (February)Connect with Rachel: Instagram @RachelTeelingCoaching

In this episode of Healing with Teeling, I’m joined by my former client Marie, who shares her powerful journey from chaos in dating to calm, secure love after heartbreak.After coming out of a long marriage and stepping into the modern dating world, Marie found herself navigating dating apps, emotional confusion, ignored red flags, and a relationship that left her anxious, overthinking, and questioning her self-worth.Together, we talk honestly about:Dating after divorce (especially when you have a child)Why chaos can feel addictive in relationshipsThe early “bunting” 🚩 that’s easy to ignore when you want love to workLove bombing, inconsistency, and cancelled plansHow confusion slowly erodes your self-worthLearning to trust your gut again after heartbreakWhy calm can feel unfamiliar when you’re used to emotional highs and lowsThe inner work that changed everything for MarieWhat a healthy, emotionally available relationship actually feels likeChoosing peace, safety, and intention over anxiety and uncertaintyMarie also shares how doing the work on herself completely transformed the way she shows up in relationships and how she’s now in a calm, secure, loving partnership that feels easy, safe, and mutual.If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in confusing dynamics, over-giving, or questioning why love feels so hard, this episode will land deeply. If you see yourself in Marie’s story, this is your sign.She didn’t change her love life by luck — she did the inner work.If you’re ready to stop repeating patterns and start creating calm, emotionally safe love, you can book an Empowerment Session with me.✨ This work works — and Marie is living proof.👉 Book your Empowerment Session

In this episode of Healing with Teeling, Rachel is joined by her partner Ed for a real, honest and fun conversation about dating in your late 30s and 40s.They talk about what it’s like re-entering the dating world after long-term relationships, marriage, kids and careers, how dating apps have changed everything, and what actually matters when it comes to attraction and connection.Ed shares the male perspective on dating apps, messaging, first dates and mixed signals, while Rachel reflects on red flags, deal breakers, and why being too rigid can sometimes block genuine connection.They also share how they met on Bumble and introduce their 7 Relationship Rules, the principles they live by to keep their relationship healthy, playful and connected.The episode finishes with Ed’s best advice for women dating after 35 who are tired of confusion and want something real.✨ Honest, relatable and full of laughs, this is a must-listen if you’re dating after heartbreak.If you’re listening and recognising yourself, feeling stuck in the same dating patterns, confused by mixed signals, or wondering why love still feels hard despite “doing the work” this is exactly the kind of conversation that leads into my coaching.✨ Book an Empowerment Call to explore what’s really keeping you stuck in love, uncover the subconscious patterns driving your relationships, and get clarity on how my coaching can help you heal, rebuild your confidence, and create the healthy relationship you actually want.

Should I Stay or Should I Go? – A Festive SpecialChristmas has a way of amplifying everything.In this episode of Healing with Teeling, I’m speaking directly to the woman who feels unhappy, unfulfilled, or emotionally unsafe in her relationship, especially at this time of year when expectations are high and loneliness can feel louder.If you’ve ever found yourself wondering:Is this relationship actually right for me?Why do I feel so alone even though I’m not single?Why don’t I trust him and is that my intuition or my past?Am I staying because I love him… or because I’m afraid to be alone?This episode is for you.I talk openly about:Feeling unfulfilled in a relationship that looks “fine” on the outsideStaying because the fear of being alone feels bigger than the unhappinessDistrust, anxious attachment, and how past cheating impacts current relationshipsOvergiving, people-pleasing, and losing yourself trying to make it workWhy Christmas often brings clarity you’ve been avoidingThe difference between gut instinct and fearA simple reflection exercise to help you gain clarity without rushing a decisionThis is an honest, grounding conversation designed to help you feel seen, validated, and supported, not pressured.Ready for clarity and support?If this episode resonated and you’re feeling unsure about your relationship, you don’t have to figure it out alone.My Empowerment Session is a safe, confidential space where we explore:What’s really keeping you stuckWhether this relationship can changeWhy you feel anxious, disconnected, or unsafe in loveHow tmy 1:1 coaching can support you to feel safe in love, reconnect with your feminine side, and trust yourself and your gut instinct. Whether you stay or go, this session is about you, your clarity, your peace, and your next steps.👉 Book your Empowerment Session hereThank you for listening to Healing with Teeling.If you don’t already follow me, come and find me on Instagram — and feel free to slide into my DMs to say hi or share what this episode brought up for you 💛You’re not alone in this.

Christmas is supposed to be magical — but for single women, it can also bring up unexpected emotions.In this episode of Healing With Teeling, we dive into why Christmas can feel heavier, lonelier, and more triggering than any other time of year. From awkward family questions to the pressure of parties, we explore the hidden patterns and fears that make this season so challenging.I also share some personal stories and simple strategies to help you navigate the holidays with a little more ease — and what’s possible if you choose to face this season differently.If you want to:Feel emotionally lighter before the festive seasonBuild confidence for Christmas dinners and partiesReconnect with yourself and trust your instincts againStart setting boundaries and raising your standardsGo into the New Year with clarity, hope, and self-belief…then book your empowerment session now.