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How Somatic Trauma Release Heals the Body and Mind with Jayden Aubryn

Ep. 92

Ever wondered how your body holds onto trauma, even when your mind can’t explain it?

In this episode, I’m joined by Jayden Aubryn, a black queer, non-binary psychotherapist and personal trainer, who specializes in somatic trauma release. Jayden explains how trauma gets trapped in our bodies as stored energy and how somatic practices like dance, yoga, and even weightlifting can release it. We discuss the connection between mental and physical health, exploring the nervous system, trauma-informed movement, and how daily activities can help process deep-seated emotional pain. Whether you're new to the idea of somatic healing or a seasoned wellness seeker, Jayden shares practical tips to make healing accessible and even fun.

Want to start healing through movement? Listen in and discover how to take back your body and mind.


KEY TAKEAWAYS

  • Trauma and the Nervous System
  • Body’s Trauma Storage Points
  • The importance of making movement fun and accessible for trauma survivors
  • Practical Movement Tips for Trauma Release
  • The benefits of encouraging trainers versus bootcamp-style training that may cause trauma.
  • The essential role of safety in the body for trauma healing
  • Childhood Trauma and Adult Reactions
  • Joy Alerts for Daily Well-being

VALUABLE RESOURCES


BEST MOMENTS

"Somatics is essentially how you relate to your body."

"When our nervous system senses a threat, it prepares to either run or fight."

“Any type of movement can be used to help process trauma."

"Once we have that proud, excited energy in our body, it’s easier to invest it into more movement."

"You have to have that conversation with your body very actively."

"Safety is not just important; it is essential because the body is afraid it's going to die."

"Music lights up your whole brain; playing some can help bring your frontal lobes back on."


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