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Launching Soon

Season 0, Ep. 1

Coming soon: Nicole Peeler and Tasha Gideon are launching a new podcast. And it's gonna be messy.

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  • 1. What is Neck-deep in the dicksand?

    19:22
    Say it with us: "dicksand!" Anyhoo, what is that one sociopathic dude at the very top -- the one with all the helicopters -- actually feeling?Can talking about gnarly power structures be funny? Let's find out together. Experiments, experts, non-experts, listener voicemails.Patreon for bonus content ┏(-_-)┛┗(-_- )┓ Merch (✿ ♡‿♡) Leave us a voicemail on the Neckline. CreditsNeck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.Episode SponsorsBooks Are Magic is a family-owned independent bookstore with two locations in Brooklyn. BAM is committed to being a welcoming, friendly, and inclusive space for all people. They offer thoughtfully selected voices and stories on their shelves, and free and affordable events featuring emerging writers as well as long-adored authors. Enjoy 10% off your entire online purchase with code NECK10 (through March 2024).Milkdrop is on a mission to improve breastfeeding, which is often not the dappled-sunlight, bucolic experience moms have been led to expect. Milkdrop's research-backed, award-winning, super soft silicone breast pump cushions literally shield your nipples from the discomfort and pain caused by one-size-fits-all commercially-available breast pumps. You deserve a comfy pump! neck-deep.link/nipSummaryNeck-deep in the dicksand is a podcast that explores power structures and aims to dismantle systems like patriarchy and white supremacy. The hosts, Tasha Gideon and Nicole Peeler, approach these topics from a non-expert perspective, embracing the joy of realizing they're doing it wrong and constantly growing and changing. The podcast's theme for the first season is anger, and they will explore different dimensions of anger, share listener experiences, and interview experts. The goal is to co-create a space for honest discussions and evolve together.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Explaining the dicksand07:01 Purpose of the Podcast13:20 Listener Voicemail and Introduction of Season 1 Theme: Anger17:11 Creating a Shared Evolution18:34 Conclusion and Call to ActionTRANSCRIPT
  • 2. What are we doing in the dicksand?

    24:50
    Can navel-gazing and blaming your parents levitate you out of the dicksand? Plus we hear from Doctor/Neighbor Jen about what anger looks like in our brains and bodies. Patreon for bonus content ┏(-_-)┛┗(-_- )┓ Merch (✿ ♡‿♡) Leave us a voicemailCreditsNeck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.Episode SponsorsLadies Who Strategize Get in front of exceptional candidates and demonstrate your commitment to gender equity. LWS is chock full of vetted mid- to C-level strategic thinkers, brand consultants and fractional CMOs, plus the employees who can provide more context and color to what it’s really like to work in your company. It’s no surprise that LWS has connected hundreds of members to freelance and permanent roles to which they would not have otherwise applied. Posting freelance gigs is free; permanent jobs have paid options.Beautiful Genius is artist Jordan Piantedosi's gorgeously unhinged clothing line. Inspired by maximalist fashion with comfort in mind, these clothes can be worn to drag brunch or your afternoon snooze fest, home office to the actual office, from the club to the forbidden network of caves beneath the city. Be comfy and cozy in your clothes while looking like a million bucks. Says Jordan, "Support the arts while you shop your sorrow away, my dear!"SummaryIn this episode, the hosts explore the theme of anger and discuss their personal experiences with anger. They also interview Dr. Jen Roth, a professor of psychology and neuroscientist, who provides insights into the biological and cognitive aspects of anger. The hosts then introduce an experiment for listeners to explore the physical sensations of anger and reflect on its function. They also discuss the importance of personal growth and accountability. The episode concludes with a preview of the next episode and a reminder to leave voicemails on the Neckline.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Theme of Anger02:59 Personal Experiences with Anger08:13 Understanding Anger from a Psychological and Neuroscientific Perspective15:32 Experiment: Exploring the Physical Sensations of Anger19:41 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Accountability23:40 Preview of Next Episode and Conclusion[TRANSCRIPT]
  • 3. Can you and your anger go to couples counseling?

    29:12
    You thought Anger was an erratic bully to avoid at all costs, but maybe ... she is actually your new BFF? Let us start you on the journey with a fabulous interview with couples and family therapist Dr. Una Henry.Patreon for bonus content ┏(-_-)┛┗(-_- )┓ Merch (✿ ♡‿♡) Leave us a voicemail on the Neckline.CreditsNeck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.Episode SponsorsBooks Are Magic is a family-owned independent bookstore with two locations in Brooklyn. BAM is committed to being a welcoming, friendly, and inclusive space for all people. They offer thoughtfully selected voices and stories on their shelves, and free and affordable events featuring emerging writers as well as long-adored authors. Enjoy 10% off your entire online purchase with code NECK10 (through March 2024).Beautiful Genius is a gorgeously unhinged clothing line inspired by maximalist fashion with comfort in mind. These clothes can be worn to drag brunch, your afternoon snooze fest, home office to the actual office, and from the club to the forbidden network of caves beneath the city.SummaryThis conversation explores the power and importance of anger in personal growth. The guest, Dr. Una Henry, discusses how anger is often misunderstood and stigmatized, but can actually be a protective and liberating emotion. The conversation covers topics such as the influence of movies on our perception of anger, the impact of words and language, rejecting binary perspectives, and the function of anger as an early warning system. The guest also shares personal experiences and listener voicemails provide additional insights into the physical and emotional manifestations of anger.Chapters00:00Introduction and Background02:12The Power of Anger04:05Embracing Anger06:19The Influence of Movies08:12The Impact of Words09:12Rejecting Binary Perspectives10:08Anger as a Clarity Indicator11:08The Function of Anger12:06Anger and Boundaries13:05Navigating Conflict in Relationships14:26Anger as an Early Warning System15:25The Liberation of Anger24:21Listener Voicemails28:24Conclusion
  • 4. Is there a difference between women and toasters?

    31:36
    Book ♫club ♫book ♫club ♫little ♫mini ♫book ♫club ♫book ♫clubIn this episode, Nicole and Tasha discuss the book Rage Becomes Her by Soraya Chemaly. They explore topics such as the suppression of women's anger, objectification, bullying, white supremacy, and the importance of self-awareness and community. The book highlights the injustices women face in everyday life and the impact of suppressing anger on their health. The hosts emphasize the need for women to trust and support each other and to separate body confidence from appearance.Patreon for bonus content ┏(-_-)┛┗(-_- )┓ Merch (✿ ♡‿♡) Leave us a voicemail on the Neckline.CreditsNeck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.Episode SponsorsLadies Who Strategize Get in front of exceptional candidates and demonstrate your commitment to gender equity. LWS is chock full of vetted mid- to C-level strategic thinkers, brand consultants and fractional CMOs, plus the employees who can provide more context and color to what it’s really like to work in your company. It’s no surprise that LWS has connected hundreds of members to freelance and permanent roles to which they would not have otherwise applied. Posting freelance gigs is free; permanent jobs have paid options.Beautiful Genius is a gorgeously unhinged clothing line inspired by maximalist fashion with comfort in mind. These clothes can be worn to drag brunch, your afternoon snooze fest, home office to the actual office, and from the club to the forbidden network of caves beneath the city.Chapters00:00Introduction02:44Book Club and Hoopla07:41Authority Figures and Negotiation08:09Bullying and Expressing Anger10:15Anger and Sadness10:44White Supremacy and Women's Anger11:09White Women's Vulnerability and Violence11:39Terroristic Racist Violence19:02Objectification and Pain20:29Domestic Labor and Caregiving23:17Self-Awareness and Naming Anger23:43Difference Between Anger, Assertiveness, and Aggression24:12Cultivating Body Confidence24:42Trusting Other Women26:09Forming Communities27:09Listener Voicemail30:00Experiment and Conclusion
  • 5. Is Operation Nice Ladies having a meltdown?

    29:36
    There is a literal layer of ash across England because somebody royally pissed off Boudica the Celtic rebel queen in AD 61.And here is Hillary Clinton's chocolate chip cookie recipe. Trigger warning: it includes rolled oats. AND SHE SAID SHE WAS FIT TO LEAD US.SummaryIn this episode, Nicole and Tasha discuss anger and its role in personal and societal contexts. They provide updates on their own experiences with anger and reflect on their exploration of anger. They introduce the show's Patreon and discuss ways to support the podcast. They also listen to voicemails from listeners on topics such as grief and anger, rom-coms and toxic relationships, and women's anger in society. They discuss the book Good and Mad by Rebecca Traister and its exploration of women's anger throughout history. The episode concludes with a discussion on using anger as fuel and a call to action for listeners to tap into their anger and use it productively.Patreon for bonus content ┏(-_-)┛┗(-_- )┓ Merch (✿ ♡‿♡) Leave us a voicemail on the Neckline.CreditsNeck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.Episode SponsorVallozzi Styling builds personalized wardrobes for executives, professionals, and everyday folks. They work with all bodies and all genders and believe in building confidence, problem solving, simplifying your life, and creating your seasonal collections with joy. They offer a Virtual Image Consulting Service where they:start with a video call to learn your lifestyle, needs, and preferencesresearch and send you a collection for you to consider and purchase using an interactive system where you can give feedback and help direct and focus the selectionhave a follow up video call with you once your items arrive to talk through fit and stylingsend you a digital guidebook of your new outfit combinations Use code DICKSAND for 20% off this amazing virtual serviceChapters01:17Exploring Anger03:05Introducing Patreon03:35Supporting the Podcast05:00Voicemails10:12Discussion on the Book 'Good and Mad'13:02Little Mini Book Club26:21Conclusion and Call to Action
  • 6. Season Finale Double Episode: Honey, I Shrunk the Shame

    44:42
    •´¯`•. s̷e̷a̷s̷o̷n̷ ̷f̷i̷n̷a̷l̷e̷ .•´¯`•·÷±22±𝕕𝕠𝕦𝕓𝕝𝕖 𝕖𝕡𝕚𝕤𝕠𝕕𝕖±2222÷· SummaryIn this episode, Nicole and Tasha reflect on their season on anger. They listen to a powerful voicemail and discuss the conflation of anger and aggression. Doctor-Friend Una Henry joins the conversation to discuss the protective nature of anger. They also discuss the impact of passive choices and the role of shame in our lives. The episode concludes with an announcement of the theme for the next season.Patreon for bonus content ┏(-_-)┛┗(-_- )┓ Merch (✿ ♡‿♡) Leave us a voicemail on the Neckline.CreditsNeck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.Episode SponsorsVallozzi Styling builds personalized wardrobes for executives, professionals, and everyday folks. They work with all bodies and all genders and believe in building confidence, problem solving, simplifying your life, and creating your seasonal collections with joy. Use code DICKSAND for 20% off their game-changing virtual service.Frame Strategy Substack A fab newsletter covering culture, brands, marketing with a twist of feminism. Get 50% OFF an annual subscription by using our link https://framestrategy.substack.com/subscribe?coupon=b249f617TakeawaysRecognize and validate your angerShare your experiences and compare notes with othersUnderstand the difference between anger and aggressionTake active choices and set boundariesListen to and understand your emotionsShrink the voice of shameChapters06:23The Power of Sharing Experiences and Comparing Notes10:23The Impact of Anger in Personal and Professional Relationships12:08Recognizing and Validating Anger16:08The Conflation of Anger and Aggression22:49Continuing the Conversation with Dr. Una Henry23:17Understanding the Protective Nature of Anger25:43Identifying and Listening to Your Anger29:16Making Active Choices and Overcoming Fear31:09The Impact of Passive Choices and Breaking Free from Shoulds36:21Shrinking the Voice of Shame38:36Conclusion and Announcement of Next Season