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Season 1, Ep. 7

We speak with Kristina Delhomme, a Licensed Professional Counselor at Ascending Light Counseling. Drawing on her work as a therapist, we discuss her panic and then deep dive aversion to therapy for men, and Latinos. We talk about what counseling looks like and how it could help. We discuss all topics of mental health from teen suicide and even grief. Tune in and share the episode with your friends as mental health has become a very important topic in today's information overload culture.

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  • 7. The Mexican American Identity Crisis Nobody Talks About

    01:03:07||Season 3, Ep. 7
    What does it mean to be Mexican in the United States?In this episode of the HisPanic Podcast, Herman Rodriguez sits down with historian Dr. Ramiro Contreras, known online as The Pocho Historian, to unpack the complex history of Mexican identity, race, and citizenship in Texas and the United States.Their conversation explores a little understood contradiction in American history. Mexicans were often classified as legally white under U.S. law, yet they were frequently treated as non white in social and political life. This paradox shaped generations of Mexican American identity and influenced how communities navigated citizenship, civil rights, and belonging.Herman and Dr. Contreras examine key historical moments that continue to influence modern debates about immigration and identity. They discuss the Mexican American War, the Treaty of Guadalupe Hidalgo, and the legal promises of citizenship that followed. They also explore the realities Mexican Americans faced in the decades after the treaty, including segregation, discrimination, and mass deportations in the early twentieth century.Dr. Contreras explains how race, law, and politics interacted to create complicated identity choices for Mexican Americans, many of whom had European, Indigenous, African, and Asian ancestry. These historical realities often forced people to navigate between legal definitions of whiteness and the social discrimination they experienced in everyday life.The conversation also highlights the importance of accurate historical representation. Herman and Dr. Contreras discuss how misinformation and simplified narratives on social media can distort the past, and why evidence based history is essential to understanding present day immigration debates.Throughout the episode, Herman reflects on his own experiences growing up in Texas as a Latino navigating cultural identity, assimilation, and American history that was rarely taught from a Latino perspective.This discussion challenges listeners to reconsider how race, citizenship, and identity have been constructed in American history and why these issues continue to shape the national conversation today.Listeners can learn more about Dr. Contreras and his work by visiting thepochohistorian.com.
  • 6. The Leadership Lie

    01:07:23||Season 3, Ep. 6
    s leadership about power or responsibility?In this episode of the HisPanic Podcast, Herman sits down with Dr. Peter Rios, a Puerto Rican scholar, Marine Corps veteran, and university professor whose life story challenges the traditional idea of what leadership really means.Peter’s journey was not a straight path to success. He failed community college three times, struggled with addiction, and faced repeated rejection before eventually becoming a professor and consultant working with institutions like Harvard. His story is a powerful example of resilience and the kind of leadership that grows through struggle, not privilege.Together, Herman and Peter discuss what they call “The Leadership Lie.” The belief that leadership is about power, titles, or authority. Instead, they explore leadership as responsibility, education, and the willingness to stand up for others.The conversation also explores Latino identity, faith, and the pressures many people face when their culture, religion, and personal identity collide. Herman shares his perspective as a gay Latino raised in Texas and how those experiences shaped the way he sees leadership, community, and social responsibility.Peter reflects on how growing up in a Puerto Rican family and his work in theology and higher education shaped his mission to empower Latino communities and challenge systems that often overlook marginalized voices.They also discuss larger social questions including caste dynamics in America, representation in leadership, and the importance of respectful dialogue even when conversations become uncomfortable.Peter shares personal lessons about resilience, including the story of being cut from basketball teams year after year before finally earning a spot on the Marine Corps basketball team. That experience shaped his belief that perseverance and character often matter more than talent.The discussion also touches on the role of emerging technology such as artificial intelligence in education, policy work, and leadership, and how these tools can be used responsibly to expand opportunity rather than deepen inequality.At its core, this episode asks a simple but important question. If leadership is not about power, then what is it really about?For Herman and Peter, the answer comes down to responsibility, resilience, and using your voice to create opportunities for others.
  • 5. Forget the Alamo

    01:00:35||Season 3, Ep. 5
    This episode centers on Forget the Alamo and challenges the deeply rooted mythology surrounding Texas independence and the Alamo.Rather than a heroic last stand against the forces of Antonio López de Santa Anna, the Alamo is discussed as a moment of mistrust and miscalculation. Many inside the mission were warned by fellow Mexicans that Santa Anna was advancing, yet chose not to believe them. That decision, more than a grand defense of liberty, led to martyrdom that was later mythologized.The conversation reframes Texas independence not as a parallel to the Boston Tea Party, but as an economic project. At its core, independence was driven by the desire to preserve slavery, embed racial hierarchy into law, and protect a cotton based economy that depended on dehumanized labor. Cotton was becoming a global commodity, Texas land was uniquely suited for plantation agriculture, and slavery was essential to that model. The mythology that followed helped settlers morally justify profiting from stolen land and enslaved people.The episode also explores how history is curated, not just lived. We discuss the roles of Clara Driscoll and Adina De Zavala, whose efforts saved the Alamo but reflected competing visions of which stories deserved preservation. That tension mirrors earlier political fractures, including the fallout involving Lorenzo de Zavala following Article 9 of the Texas Constitution, which formalized racial exclusion and severed ties with Mexican citizens who once belonged to the land.Ultimately, the episode argues that the Alamo myth endures because it obscures uncomfortable truths. Texas was founded less on freedom and more on protecting slavery, racial hierarchy, and economic power. These realities continue to shape identity, politics, and belonging today.
  • 4. The Maduro Matrix in Venezuela

    47:15||Season 3, Ep. 4
    In this episode, Herman is joined by Eric Holguin, South Texas organizer and candidate for Texas State Representative, for a wide-ranging and unfiltered conversation on U.S. foreign policy, international law, and the rapidly shifting political landscape at home.The discussion centers on the recent U.S. military operation in Venezuela that resulted in the capture of Nicolás Maduro and members of his family. Herman and Eric unpack whether the action was legal under international law, the absence of congressional authorization, and how the operation has been received globally—particularly in Latin America and Europe, where concerns over sovereignty and precedent remain high. They explore historical parallels, including past U.S. interventions, and question whether strategic interests—especially oil—are driving policy more than democratic principles.The conversation also addresses what they see as glaring contradictions in U.S. policy: the mass deportation of Venezuelan asylum seekers, the pardon of a convicted Honduran dictator tied to drug trafficking, and the selective application of justice and accountability abroad. Herman raises concerns about how these actions erode U.S. credibility on the global stage, especially as China continues to expand its economic and geopolitical influence.Turning to domestic politics, Herman and Eric examine voter frustration, rising economic anxiety, and the impact of executive overreach on democratic institutions. Eric shares on-the-ground insights from South Texas and the Rio Grande Valley, highlighting shifting voter behavior, post-election regret among some Trump voters, and why Democrats continue to struggle with coordination despite competitive down-ballot results.The episode closes with a candid assessment of Texas politics, the importance of coalition-building, and what it will take to rebuild trust—both internationally and at home—after years of political chaos and distraction.#HisPanicPodcast#PodcastPolitics#PoliticalPodcast#ProgressiveVoices#LatinoPodcast#TexasPolitics#CivicEngagement
  • 3. Deconstructing Boundaries of Faith, Could God be a She?

    59:46||Season 3, Ep. 3
    🎙️ When God Is She: Reimagining the Divine Beyond GenderIn this episode, Herman and Pastor Shelley explore the bold and beautiful idea of referring to God as “she,” challenging patriarchal traditions and inviting listeners to see the Divine through a more inclusive lens. The conversation dives into the theological, emotional, and cultural layers of gendered language in faith — asking how our words shape our view of God and ourselves.Pastor Shelley shares her personal journey of deconstructing faith, embracing womanist theology, and discovering a mothering spirit in God that transcends gender. She reflects on her congregation’s reaction at St. Peter’s, where using “she” for God was met not with resistance but with gratitude from those who felt newly seen in the Divine image. Together, she and Herman explore scriptural references that reveal both maternal and paternal aspects of God — ultimately affirming that God is beyond binaries.Their discussion widens to include LGBTQ+ inclusion, empathy in ministry, and the dangers of using faith as a weapon. Pastor Shelley describes her work through Be Out Ministries, a movement dedicated to helping people of all backgrounds reconcile faith and identity. Herman shares how his own faith journey — and his upcoming book about his uncle’s murder as a gay man — have deepened his understanding of grace, justice, and spiritual truth.The two also tackle the mistranslation of the word “homosexual” in the 1946 NIV Bible, exploring how linguistic errors have shaped modern prejudice. They discuss the documentary 1946, which exposes how ancient Greek terms like arsenakoitai and malachoi were misinterpreted — a mistake that fueled decades of harm toward queer Christians.At its heart, this episode is about love over judgment, curiosity over certainty, and compassion over conformity. Herman and Pastor Shelley remind listeners that true Christianity isn’t about who’s right or wrong — it’s about who’s loved and who’s left out. They challenge the church to reflect the radical inclusivity of Jesus, who met people where they were, not where others thought they should be.Takeaway: Faith evolves when we allow discomfort to teach us. Language matters because it reveals who we believe God can be. And perhaps, in calling God “she,” we begin to heal parts of ourselves that patriarchy taught us to silence.
  • 2. PRIDE 2025

    28:14||Season 3, Ep. 2
    In this powerful PRIDE Month episode, His Panic Podcast exposes how LGBTQ+ visibility and Latino immigration are being weaponized as distractions by political elites to protect corporate interests. We unpack how both queer and immigrant communities are targeted—not because they’re threats, but because their existence challenges the American caste system. From book bans to ICE raids, we connect the dots between perception, power, and oppression. Most importantly, we reclaim the true meaning of PRIDE—not as superiority, but as resistance, healing, and visibility.
  • 1. Covid Chaos or Just Trump Chaos?

    52:00||Season 3, Ep. 1
    In this episode, we unpack the question many Americans are now asking: was the chaos of 2020 really about the pandemic, or was it simply the result of Donald Trump’s leadership style? As Trump begins another term in office, we’re seeing the return of disarray — without COVID to blame.We compare the early months of his current presidency to the COVID-era White House: attacks on institutions, firings of federal watchdogs, dismantling of safety oversight (like the FAA), vague and bizarre public statements, and ongoing legal drama. The atmosphere of uncertainty, division, and disorder feels eerily familiar — even without a global health crisis.We challenge listeners to consider: maybe the chaos wasn’t circumstantial. Maybe it’s a feature of Trumpism itself — fueled by disruption, confusion, and political theater.Tune in as we explore how leadership sets the tone for the nation and how the current unrest echoes not a virus, but a personality at the center of power.
  • 10. CEO Murder, Morals & God Made Me Gay

    56:39||Season 2, Ep. 10
    Podcast Summary: Morality, Faith, and Purpose with Influencer Mike MaeshiroIn this episode, we explore the moral complexities of the alleged murder of the UHC CEO, a case that has sparked heated debate. Some see Luigi, the alleged perpetrator, as a Robin Hood figure, but we agree that while his motives may seem altruistic to some, murder is morally indefensible. The discussion delves into themes of justice, morality, and the societal pressures that fuel such narratives.We then pivot to a conversation with our guest, Mike Maeshiro, an influencer, speaker, and advocate for LGBTQ+ Christians. Mike shares how his experiences with Christianity and the challenges of reconciling his queerness with his faith led to what he calls "Christian PTSD." These struggles ultimately gave him purpose, inspiring him to speak for others who feel marginalized within faith communities. Now, Mike dedicates his work to helping others process their experiences, come out, and embrace their identities.About Mike Maeshiro:https://www.mikemaeshiro.com/Mike is a thought leader in the intersection of faith, identity, and authenticity. Through his speaking engagements, online presence, and mentorship, he challenges traditional Christian narratives to create space for LGBTQ+ individuals. His work centers on fostering healing and empowerment for those grappling with exclusion and trauma in religious contexts.This Week in History:We also highlight pivotal moments in history:For LGBTQ+ History: The first observance of Transgender Day of Remembrance on November 20, 1999, honoring those lost to anti-transgender violence.For Latino History: November 20, 1910, marks the start of the Mexican Revolution, a fight for justice and equality that reshaped Mexican-American identity.For Women’s History: November 26, 1869, saw the founding of the American Woman Suffrage Association, a key step toward securing voting rights for women.
  • 9. Labels, Perception and Frustration

    01:10:11||Season 2, Ep. 9
    In this episode, we dive into how labels are used to deflect attention from systemic inequality and the tangible frustrations faced by everyday Americans. From the inability to purchase a home or afford rent to the struggle of putting food on the table or taking time off, we explore how these realities fuel unfocused anger.We discuss how terms like "personal responsibility" and "lifestyle choices" shift blame away from systemic issues, while narratives like “hard work always pays off” obscure the structural barriers holding people back. Labels are weaponized to redirect anger into cultural wars, distracting from the wealth agenda that normalizes inequality, suppresses education, and widens economic gaps.We connect these frustrations to daily impacts on housing, food insecurity, and work-life balance, showing how the system is designed to benefit the few at the expense of the many. Finally, we emphasize solutions, including advocating for policies addressing wage stagnation, housing affordability, and access to paid leave.Join us as we challenge divisive labels, uncover systemic roots of frustration, and call for a collective push toward equitable change. Let’s move beyond being “right” and focus on finding the truth that unites us.

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