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Dr Debra Campbell: don't date your therapist!

Ep. 26
Dr Debra Campbell: don't date your therapist!

Deb Campbell is an author and psychologist. I talk to Deb today about her relationships history, her divorce, her remarriage and her experience of DATING HER FORMER THERAPIST (hot tip: don't do that). We take some wonderful listener calls and do the usual memes and other stuff. A cracker ep from an actual expert.


Deb's website: HERE (buy her book LOVELANDS via her website - I highly recommend it)


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