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130: Financial Freedom After Divorce: Practical Steps to Rebuild & Thrive

Ep. 130

Welcome back to Your Divorce Planner and get ready for some serious financial empowerment, folks! This time, we’ll be chatting with the amazing Leah Hadley. Leah is a financial guru and who knows all about how to rebuild and thrive financially after divorce. She's got some seriously practical steps to share, based on both her personal and professional experiences. 


In this important and insightful episode, you'll learn how to deal with the emotional side of getting a divorce and how to make financial decisions that fit with your new situation.



Here are the talking points that we’ve covered:


  • Removing emotion from financial planning during a divorce and being realistic about one's future desires.
  • The function of a financial coach or mentor in helping clients negotiate the emotional side of divorce and make informed decisions.
  • Taking advantage of free workshops to increase financial literacy.
  • The importance of liquidity and having access to cash after divorce.




Connect with Leah Hadley


Leah’s Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leahahadley

Leah’s Company Website: https://www.greatlakesdfs.com/

Watch Her Thrive Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/watchherthrive/?hl=en

Watch Her Thrive Facebook Group: https://web.facebook.com/watchherthrive

Link to the book: 

https://www.amazon.com/When-Its-Just-Not-Working-ebook/dp/B07X7PK3RB



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