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How to Let the REAL You Shine | Spotlight Convo

When was the last time you felt truly seen, flaws and all, without pretending or minimizing yourself? For many, those moments of radical self-acceptance are rare.


Today we're sharing stories from three inspiring women - author Alex Elle, teacher Rosie Acosta, and poet Arielle Estoria - who have uncovered their truest selves after shedding layers of conditioning. Their profoundly personal journeys offer wisdom for us all. We explored what it takes to embrace who you are, not who you "should" be, and how sharing your unique light can help you find belonging. Their stories and words are infused with empathy, compassion, and generosity of spirit.


My hope is this episode will spark self-reflection and help you reconnect with your authentic voice. Because when we can be radically seen and loved fully - that's when we glimpse our highest potential.


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You can find Alex at: Website | Instagram | Listen to Our Full-Length Convo with Alex

You can find Rosie at: Website | Instagram | Listen to Our Full-Length Convo with Rosie

You can find Arielle at: Website | Instagram | Listen to Our Full-Length Convo with Arielle


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