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REPLAY - Guest: Nicole Byer - Boyfriend Has a Spank Bank of Me and Our Friends?

aka: The one that happened minutes after Meghan had a seizure


Comedian Nicole Byer is here this week to share advice! We’re answering your questions on what to do if you match with your professor on Tinder, how to communicate with a friend that left the country for a man, how to handle your ex boyfriend who’s “addicted” to weed and owes you money, and what to say to your partner when you’re ready to lose your virginity. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares how she overcame fuck boy syndrome. 

 

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