Not So Linear

Mary Hoang is a psychologist who thinks creatively about what makes humans lead more meaningful lives. She is founder of the mental health organisation 'The Indigo Project' and is tearing down the walls of traditional psychology.After her fathers death in 2017, Mary turned to art and writing to explore how the darker aspects of life hold the keys to insight and purpose. Losing him was her life changing moment, which she so beautifully documents in her book ‘Darkness is Golden’ and explores alongside us how we can deal with life’s messiness. We talk about:Mary's background and why she set up a progressive therapy practiceWhy we have to give uncomfortable feelings space, rather than supressing themLosing her Father and how it shifted her lens on lifeGrief & funerals in Asian cultureDeath mediationThe concept of the 'Inner child' and how we must learn to meet our needsHow all types of grief are valid, such as loss of career, relationship or health etcThe monsters in our haunted houseMary's experience of breaking down whilst writing the bookManaging anxietyIf you are interested in reading more about her work, you can find her organisation here: www.theindigoproject.com.au and her instagram @maryhoangindigoYou can order her book 'Darkness is Golden via Amazon or Booktopia.Thanks and don't forget to subscribe to Not So Linear to get the latest episodes!

Hey everyone! I'm back from a little break in podcasting and returning with a new sort episode type called 'Tam Talks', which is full of my little ramblings and thoughts! I talk about:Lockdown lifting in SydneyTaking your time to get back in to socialisingAustralia's crazy border rulesFeeling excluded as a temporary visa holderFocusing on gratitude and what I do haveTrying to live in the momentPatreon

Hey! Welcome back to another episode of Not So Linear, where I talk about my grief journey and the last 6 months of change since launching the podcast. This time I'm interviewed by my younger sister Lily, which is very special as it shows how much we've grown through our grief together.I talk honestly about how my relationship with my grief and my mum have evolved, as I have tried to make peace with my emotions and find ways to connect with her again. I also talk about the importance of finding a strong community of others who can help you feel less alone and I am so glad I found that in Motherless Daughters and within my own instagram page @tamsinmillardWe also talk about the impact that alcohol has on anxiety and how we live in a society that pressures us to tick off life events in order to be 'happy' - which is just unnecessary! I hope you feel less alone in  your journey by listening to mine. Don't forget to follow across apple and spotify to keep up to date with all of my latest episodes!

Hey guys! On today's episode I am joined by fellow motherless daughter, Katrina. After experiencing multiple losses within her early life and witnessing the uncomfort and lack of knowledge around her, Katrina began her journey as a grief & loss educator.Katrina specialises in providing workshops within organisations and businesses. For many people, returning to work after a significant loss can be daunting and anxiety inducing. Therefore, it's so important that our workplaces are able to support those who are grieving and can provide their employees with the tools to deal with such scenarios. Katrina also talks about how we can support our friends who are grieving and explains the importance of acknowledging them. The last thing we want to do is dismiss another's grief!You can find more about Katrina on her website www.katrinapreislerweller.com or on her instagram @katrinapwellerThanks and don't forget to follow me on Instagram @tamsinmillard

In this episode I'm joined by George Falck, who lost his twin brother Will when he was 24. Will was diagnosed with terminal cancer and the boys decided they would do as much as they could in the few years that they had left together.From following England Football matches all over Europe, to Will running a marathon in Amsterdam, they didn't let the anticipatory grief get in their way of quality time together. However,  George is very open about how he felt relief once Will passed away, since his last few months and weeks were an extremely difficult time for him.What I love about George's grief journey is that he works hard to keep Will's memory alive. From taking a flag with Will's name on to sporting events all over the world, to hosting an annual golf tournament in his name. It is these acts that give George strength and help him feel close to Will all these years later.Don't forget to 'follow' this podcast and you can find me on instagram: @tamsinmillard_

Trigger warning: This episode contains conversation around gun crime and violence. In today’s episode I talk with Jennifer from LA, who lost her boyfriend Jon in last year, in a brutal, unprovoked attack. His killer shot him multiple times. We talk about how she has coped with her grief after losing him in such a horrible way and how she’s now protesting current policies in place that are preventing his killer serving a full sentence. Don’t forget to follow and you can find me on Instagram: @tamsinmillard_