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Episode 412 - Life is a Glorious Journey!

Ep. 412

Nothing better than the beginning of a new cycle to renew our hope of achieving great things and gather resources to feed our desire to grow and evolve. But as we all know, goals without a plan are just dreams. 

 

In this episode, Rob Shallenberger joins us to talk about how to find happiness and joy, good health, and be professionally successful in 2024. Rob is an F16 Fighter Pilot, a family man and scholar, but also one of the world's top thought leaders in productivity and time management and how to prioritize your time.  

 

Throughout our conversation, Rob shares three simple yet powerful tips that propose a whole new way of looking at what we want to achieve in 2024 and how to do it. You'll learn to improve your time-management skills, be more specific and intentional with your roles and goals and be less reactive toward unexpected events and setbacks.  

 

Tune in to Episode 412 of Becoming Your Best and learn how to set up for happiness, good health, joy, and professional success in 2024. 

 

In This Episode, You Will Learn: 

  • How do we make 2024 great? (3:00) 
  • How to create time for self-improvement (5:10) 
  • What is the most important thing to you? (7:30) 
  • Life happens; have faith in the process (10:20) 
  • Why having your goals on sight will make the difference (16:30) 
  • How to make our cup larger (20:40) 

 

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