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Episode 394 - Defining Moments of Leadership with Marsha Acker

Ep. 394

"Have you ever had the frustrating experience of having the same conversation over and over at work or at home? Because if you have, that's your indicator, your canary in the coal mine telling you there's a lot more to that conversation you're missing."


In this episode, I'm joined by the extraordinary Marsha Acker to discuss how to identify and crack down on stuck patterns of communication that get in the way of performing at the highest level. Marsha is a Leadership and Team Coach, Author, Sought-after Speaker, Host of the Defining Moments of Leadership podcast, and the Founder and CEO of TeamCatapult.


Throughout our conversation, you'll hear Marsha's thoughts on the most common communication issues and their devastating effects on organizations, families, and personal and professional relationships. Marsha also shares tips to enhance our communication skills, reduce the noise's interference to the minimum, and create sustainable change.


You'll also hear about Marsha's background, what inspired her to become a facilitator, create the Model for Leading Change, and much more.


Tune in to Episode 394 and learn to identify and crack down on the communication issues holding you and your team back.


Some Questions I Ask:

Tell us about your background, including any turning points that massively influenced you and your work today (3:10)

What are some good communication tips for us today? (9:20)


In This Episode, You Will Learn:

What led Marsha to work as a facilitator and become a communication expert (6:20)

Learn to separate the WHAT from the HOW (12:40)

What happens when an individual keeps coming back to a core issue (16:10)

Tips to maintain sustainable change (21:30)

Be welcoming to opposing ideas when communicating (25:20)


Resources:

Book: Marsha Acker - Build Your Model for Leading Change: A Guided Workbook to Catalyze Clarity and Confidence in Leading Yourself and Others

Defining Moments of Leadership with Marsha Acker podcast


Connect with Marsha:

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