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Episode 366 - Harness Fear and Lead Your Most Courageous Life with Scott Simon

Ep. 366

What if we could change the way we see fear? What if we could transform it from the burden that slows us down into the fuel of our actions?


This week, I'm excited to welcome Scott Simon, Author, Speaker, and Founder of the Scare Your Soul movement. He is passionate about connecting people with their courage, helping them thrive, and guiding them into a courageous and vibrant life.


You'll hear about Scott's fantastic story of resilience, the day he decided to face a 35-year-old fear he had been carrying, and the Facebook post that went viral and changed his life. Scott shares several golden nuggets on how to face our fears, how to turn them into our fuel, and why he believes courage is a muscle that can be trained, just as our gratitude muscle.


In addition, we talk about his book, "Scare Your Soul: 7 Powerful Principles to Harness Fear and Lead Your Most Courageous Life," what moved him to write it, how to regain power from forgiveness, and so much more.


Tune in to Episode 366 of Becoming Your Best, and learn how to transform your fears and use them in your favor.


Some Questions I Ask: 

What is the one thing that really holds most people back in life? (7:21) 

How do our brains produce fear? And how can we use that to our advantage? (8:53) 

If you say, “I am excited to do this. Your body releases endorphins and chemicals, and your physical state matches the mental state you're creating.” Is that what you're saying? (19:21)


In This Episode, You Will Learn: 

An experience in fourth grade that will last 35 years (2:59) 

What does science say about fear and how it is created (9:12) 

How to tone up the courage muscle (16:19) 

How to recover our power through forgiveness (24:13) 

Why you should have that difficult conversation you've been avoiding for a while (28:26)


Resources: 

Scare Your Soul website 

Scare Your Soul Instagram 

Book: Scott Simon - Scare Your Soul: 7 Powerful Principles to Harness Fear and Lead Your Most Courageous Life


Connect with Scott: 

LinkedIn 

Instagram


Becoming Your Best Resources: 

Becoming Your Best Website 

Email: support@becomingyourbest.com

Book: Becoming Your Best: The 12 Principles of Highly Successful Leaders 

Book: Conquer Anxiety: How to Overcome Anxiety and Optimize Your Performance

Facebook Group – Conquer Anxiety

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